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Day 346 07.07.2015 Grandma has passed away peacefully

Cipeko

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blog-0677216001436339749.jpgHello all,

 

I don't want to say unfortunately as I know she's in peace now but grandma Adile has passed away in my mother's arms yesterday about noon time, 7th of July 2015, 346 days after her stroke on 2 August 2014. Her organs failed and that's our guess, her WBC count was 15000, about 2.5 times her normal, 6000, no fever, nothing, normal heart rate but her respiration was broken, like a dog who ran hell fast, dunno what that's called in english, that kind of broken breathing.

 

She couldn't live for a year, but she made us or at least me more loving, caring then ever. She still tried hard to make us better, and that's what I believe actually. She thought my mother, tried to ease her passing away in the 11months, coaxed my mother for her safe passage...

 

The doctor said she had some more blood cloths, maybe more than 2-3, although I thought the doctor was making this up, as there was no fever, no irregularity in her bpm, her brain or lungs could be failing, so the doc chose the one more confusing, anyway, can't judge or blame anyone.

 

My family is grateful for all the help, support you've provided for grandma through this network not withstanding the thousand miles and the ocean in between us.

 

I believe she's peaceful now...we all should be...she saved herself and my mother from eating herself away.

 

Love, I believe love will save us from ourselves, save us from the things we call good-bad, because we made them up, I believe everything's happening for a reason, and that's a good reason...so everything's good...something you consider bad is good for your body, we need to stand up tight, strong and care, love ourselves and then care for each other, starting from our families but not caring less about others too...we are all 7 billion people on this great planet with many more animals...Peace should be our main concern, peace inside, peace outside our bodies...then our lives has a meaning...

 

Thanks once again a million for your messages, support.

 

Let me know if you're ever visiting Turkey, Izmir, pergamon, Ephesus, etc... I'll be happy if I could help. I'd make grandma proud ;)

 

Cheers,

 

Cagin IPEKOGLU

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HostAsha

Cagin :

 

So sorry for your loss though your grandma is defintely at better place. & I agree whole heartedly with you from this seemingly bad experience your grandma did bring all of you closer & prepared you all for her passing.

 

would love to meet you some day. please stay in touch with us with your life updates.

 

Asha

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fking

Cagin,

 

Sorry for your loss at this time we understand one day we all got to go that same way, be blessed you had her here for a long time now grandma Adile is with God in a better place and you still got mom here with you.... You are blessed!!!!

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1967stingray

So sorry for your loss.   You are a wonderful grandson, and a wonderful person to have been there every step of the way for your mom and grandmom.  There wasn't any more you could have done!

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Tinamomof2

I am so sorry for the loss of your grandmother! What a kind, gentle grandson/man you are! The blogging you did about your grandma was commendable. Praying for strength and peace for you, your mom and the rest of your family!

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englishlady

Cagin, you and your family are in my prayers. Your are a wonderful young

man, and you made your Grandmother and Mother proud. We need to love more

and care about one another more.

 

God bless

 

Yvonne

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Ethyl17

So sorry for your loss. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. The blessing is that you had time with Grandmother and that you have it all written for the time when all of this is behind you a bit. Debbie

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SandyCaregiver

Your beautiful message is a living tribute to her.   I am glad to hear that she had a peaceful passage, and I know that a good part of that, was all the love you & your mom have surrounded her with.   

 

It's never easy to lose a loved one, I'm sorry for the pain you are all feeling.

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Cipeko

Dear all,

 

Thanks for reading, commenting and even thinking for just 1 second of my grandma Adile, me or my mom or anyone from my family.  I've had a hard time trying to put everything into words in my last post to this blog, it was not possible at the start, then with teardrops, I managed to write it.

 

It's 12 days since she's flown...and I feel her in the bird's singing, or a goat's calling...How she thought us to love and care...wow...I'm still being amazed.

 

My personal email is;

cagin.ipekoglu@gmail.com

 

Love to you all,

I'll try and stop by once in 2-3 weeks to read, comment or be of any help I can be to the stroke network users, caretakers, survivors...

 

Cheers,

 

Cagin

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