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Oh how far we've come


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We've been car shopping. Our Ford has a manual transmission and we now need something with an automatic for Rob to drive. What an epic this has been. Talking to used car salesmen; pouring over classifieds. It didn't take long to find out that there isn't anybody out there jumping up and down to get their hands on our 3/4 T pickup that gets 13 miles to the gallon. (especially in a time when gas is as high as 2.70) We finally struck a "deal" on Saturday - that didn't really land in our favor financially. We traded our truck, for one that was a year older, similar mileage - and still had to give the dealer a few thousand dollars. Rob has been "checked out" by his OT to drive however I believe he still needs some practice. He tried to take out about four feet of a curb the other day in the new truck - and as the vehicle was pivoting around this obstacle on the snow and ice - his comment was "hmm that's wierd". Gave Elias and I both a very good laugh..... This whole blog started out with a thought about Rob's driving - and in the need to practice driving this new vehicle - we decided to go to the book store. This bookstore has a lot of memories for me over the past few months. It was a place we ventured early after his stroke and I always hated it. Rob would always want to go there because it has the best magazine selection. But my concern was that it had multi floors - stairs - and narrow sections between the books. A nightmare for someone in a wheelchair. On Saturday, when we went to the bookstore I was watching Rob maneuver through the narrow magazine section walking with his cane. He was standing tall and could reach the magazines he was interested in. I watched him very slowly and carefully squat down to reach the lower magazines as well. He selected a magazine to buy for his brother - and was able to carry it in his fingers that he held with his cane. And then it occurred to me - it was less than two months ago, that we were last in this store. His wheelchair blocked the magazine aisle - I could tell he was a huge inconvenience to other customers. He had to ask me to look for magazines on the top shelf. I had the whole picture in my mind - from the last trip in his wheelchair and this trip him walking through the narrow aisle with his cane. Oh how far we've come.

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hey:

 

so happy for both of you, life is so wonderful when we appreciate all those small things we take it for granted, my best moment was able to walk to the bathroom without aid was greatest moment for me

 

Asha

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I remember when I went to take my driving test, both written and road test. The little lady said no, I'm not afraid to ride with you, you have been driving for 45 years and no accidents on your record. So with one hand on the wheel, off we went. I passed, and have been driving myself to Dr. visits, picking up prescriptions and church from 3 months after I got out the hospital. I'm 21 months out now.

 

Rob will have a ball all over again like he felt in the bookstore with his cane and not needing his wheelchair. That takes some time and pressure off you to drive all over town. Congratulations!!

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I remeber being ready to drive, PT & neurologist told me I could drive, but I din't feel I was ready..so when i felt I could handle driving I started slowly. (we live in a very rural area) first I would drive up our gravel road just to where the highway was and turn around in the trunaround spot and drive back, then I would drive a mile or so up to the little store. Then a few miles. Once I felt comfortable, that I could focus and react properly...Now I drive the freeway and am comfortable driving.

Bonnie

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