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babies, worries and being on call


swilkinson

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What a week that was. Last Friday when Pamela had her regular check-up it was not good news, blood pressure too high, bloodwork showing trouble with kidneys etc, usual late pregnancy thing. She was told to take it easy over the weekend and come back on Monday. Mondays results still not good news so eventually she was ordered into hospital. The family rallied around, Trevor moved over to their house to be standby carer for Tori, Steve got some leave and went back to hospital to be with Pamela. On Tuesday afternoon the gynecologist decided to induce the baby. We all felt :( and worried.

 

Tuesday was a worrying day. I had an email from an old friend telling me that mutual friends had cut short their overseas holiday to fly back to Australia to the bedside of their daughter-in-law who died as a result of childbirth. Their son would now raise the new babe and his wife's two teenagers. What sad news, women do still die in childbirth. I alternately worried and prayed all day.

 

Wednesday morning I was still worrying when the news came through, baby Alexander James had been born, his mum was in labour from midnight on but both were well. Hip hip hooray. What wonderful exciting fantastic fabulous news. :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

 

We went in late Wednesday afternoon to see our new grandson and congratulate our daughter-in-law. Pamela had had over 24 hours without sleep so was quiet but still showed the joy and pride in her baby that mothers do. Ray and I were there when Tori saw her new baby brother for the first time. Funny how maternal even small girls are. "Can I pat him Mamma? Can I kiss him? Can I hold him." And she was allowed to hold him, she looked like a small Madonna, head bent to gaze tenderly into his tiny face.

 

You'll be glad to hear she acted nothing like a Madonna when she and Trevor came on here for dinner. She acted like her usual, boisterous, demanding five year old self. That is good news too. I don't want her to be too angelic, that would worry me.

 

Thursday went sending emails as well as all the usual Thursday things. Trevor and Tori came out after school, stayed for dinner, went back to her place to bed. By today we are used to the news. FOUR grandchildren. Add that to my profile, my three children, my FOUR grandchildren. Trev and Tori will be in and out all weekend. Granma is always on call. I don't mind. I think that is the way it should be. :cloud9:

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Congrarulations, I'm so very glad everything turned out ok. I'm sure you are the bestest granma!!!

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Sue,

I am very glad everything "came out" okay with Pamela and baby Alexander. How long will they be at the hospital before they come home? How much did he weigh??? Who is he named after (you told me, but I can't remember- was it your father and Pam's Grandfather)? I know, nosy nosy nosy. (but I still want to know)

 

Enjoy the new addition to the family!

 

Kristen

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Congrats to Ray & Sue :cloud9: a new baby boy what wonderful news.

 

I love the sight of seeing a sibling with the new baby, such awe and wonder...

 

Now you have 4 to Enjoy

 

Bonnie

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sue:

 

congratulations to grandma, and pa,mom, dad & tori

 

yes and I want all info 2, how much he weighs and who is he named after

 

 

love

Asha

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Alexander and Pamela arrived home late this afternoon.

 

Alexander was 20" (49cms)long at birth and weighed 7lb 2oz (3270grams) at birth.

 

He was named after Pamela's grandfather and my Dad. What a lovely ending to June. I am so glad it is over and he arrived safely.

 

Now let's get back to normal, whatever that is.

 

Sue.

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Sue,

 

It's great that you have this bright spot in your life right now! Congratulations!

 

Jean

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Congratulations Sue & Ray on the birth of your lovely new grandson I haven't been able to be on here for a few weeks & couldn't wait to catch up on all the news & what good news it is Congratulations once again Love Anne & Baz :cloud9:

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