Anniversary
Well, today is our 39th anniversary. Such a long time and mostly what I think about is how close I came to not having this anniversary with him. The thing is, it seems like Jim is almost emotionless now. I know that he loves me but sometimes he looks at me like I'm his next door neighbor or something. The stroke must have affected that part of his brain I guess. I don't expect much from him but a gentle touch of his good hand on my face would be nice or an "I Love You" without me saying it first would do wonders. Oh well, I can only hope that with time this too will change. Maybe it's because he has lost so much of himself that he's afraid to give any more away. Or, maybe he doesn't trust me to stay with him now that he is so disabled. Who knows? Psychoanalyzing people was never my high point. I just know that I'm going to do my best to make today a very special day for the two of us because we came very close to not having it.
Betty Jean
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