another sad and happy event
well folks, another appearance of the black cloud over my family. i have put off blogging about this for awhile now. but i have good news and bad news. good news is my oldest son marc that was suppose to be moving back here, just found out he is going to be a DADDY, come november, so i will be a grandmother, woohoo. his girlfriend and marc had been trying for along time the doctor told her her tubes were completely blocked and probably would never get pregnant. just shows you doctors aren't always right. she is a high risk pregnancy due to her age, and her uterine fibroids. the problem is the timing is bad. he was moving back here because they just don't get along very well. this isn't the perfect situation to bring a child into. so i guess he is going to come for a visit instead of moving here. i can live with that. i just want him to be happy, maybe the baby will help them to work out their differences. so i am asking for prayers to help them with the pregnancy and their lives. now the bad news.
my other son matt, that just got married a year ago. his wife tonya has started drinking heavily and told matt to move out she didn't love him anymore. needless to say, matt and us are heartbroken. matt is beside himself and she pulled this on him a week before his semester ended. but somehow he finished it. not sure how his grades will be though. he moved back in with us, trying to find work now to occupy his time. i am powerless to help him other than just be there for him. this is breaking my heart to see him like this. i am so angry at tonya right now, i want to hire guido, to pay her a visit, LOL. they have been together 8years, married for 1. they are alot of issues on her family's side, i think are playing a role in this breakup. plus other things i won't get into now. matt is finding out that his friends are not wanting to get involved nor his in-laws that were his 2nd parents. i have tried to explain to him why friends do this after a crisis hits, just like after my stroke so called friends just disappear. her parents are another story, they need to be there for her, but i think thats part of the problem. i am no marriage counselor but i can offer my advice as a mother. as hard as this is, he will get through it. so i ask for prayers for him also. i want my kids happy and to have a good life, my stroke has put an additional strain on them, but they both have been there for me. i guess you never stop being a mother after the kids are grown,huh. i have always been a worry wart. i don't need anymore stress in my life, since this damn stroke. what is god trying to tell me. i know it takes 2 to make a marriage work. please pray for me too, i don't need another stroke,nor do i want one!!! just another day in my life post stroke.
7 Comments
Recommended Comments