4 Am and talking about therapy
I am so frustrated. William has been up since 2AM . He is concerned about the pool. We will get up at 5:30A. But, since he is up so early ...we can have an even earlier start. But, we need to discuss the pros and cons of therapy. Let me tell you at 4AM I am not in the best of moods. I go on for 30 min. Mind you, we started this discussion at 2 AM. I finally, threaten him. We go or I quit. We do go and William after we are finished agrees that it was good to go and exercise.
But, why do I have to berate and argue and pester him so.??? I have told him that if he tells me no. I am no longer going to pester him. A no is a no. The caretakers take the easy way out. I will follow suit and take the easy way out.
I have told William that if he doesn't want to get stronger then he can just rest in bed and on the recliner. I am not going to keep kicking myself to get him to do anything.
I told him that if he wants to work himself into a nursing home that is his choice.
I am so tired of doing everything for him. I do not want to keep being the mean person. I am the one that insists that things get done.
Ruth
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