Mom will be 83 in the 21st, of this month. She has been in a nursing home for 3 years now, I have a brother who will get out of prison on Christmas eve and I have no intention of taking care of him Keith killed his first wife just before Gran died, came out on parole and stabbed his second wife, came out on parole and played with Mom's best friend's grandson. This is the stuff he did when he was a kid. Keith had Mom's rent raised and should not be out of prison. Mom thinks I should take care of Keith. I'm 60 years old and have had a stroke. I can't do anything about Keith until he makes a move first. I'm not going to move but I think I'm going to have my phone number changed. Keith, I think will go back to Onondaga Co. I live in St. Lawrence Co., I have costody of Mom. Oh, Mom's church in Syracuse thinks they should save Keith and even have been up here (3 hours away) to take pictures to send to Keith. I'm in the middle of something I can't get out of. I don;'t have time to take care of myself since Mom takes all my time. What can I do?