Time for you to GO ON STRIKE.
I am not kidding.
GO ON STRIKE. Stop doing everything, EVERYTHING.
Put a strike sign on your chest and
stand firm, until you've made your point
and things change.
I did it. Made a sign, marched in front of
my own home, refused to come in.
They caved fast, and chores were assigned.
That was years ago, in my first marriage.
But I'd do it again if I had to.
Rachel, a caregiver