I agree. There's no reason for guilt or apologies.
Being educated about the medical mechanics of the situation and
politely, but firmly asserting your concerns can
never be wrong.
I whacked my head once, big lump, but it didn't hurt. 24 hours later I had a bulge in my throat, big bulge.
The ER Doctor was new, too new.
She scheduled me for thyroid tests. "But I hit my head yesterday, it's got to be related to that," I protested, "I don't have the symptoms of a thyroid condition!"
which didn't stop her, she decided to schedule me for ulcer tests, lung tests, TB, diabetes etc. and MORE ETC...when she added a treadmill test, I blurted NO! and asked to see another Doctor. (Yes, it was an awkward moment)
The next Doctor was an old ER pro. He looks at my head lump and my throat bulge and sayeth, "You probably bled into your throat and the blood's trapped there."
"Makes sense to me," I smiled, "Let's stab it and find out if it's venous blood."
He did and it was trapped venous blood from the head wound. The end.
I figure the new doctor, she of a million tests, was too nervous to guess the obvious. If I'd kept my mouth shut though, no doubt her next move would be to test me for beriberi.
Rachel