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So now many "shorties" have responded, there are the advantages - of that and of being "old" LOL!. Yesterday when setting the top shelf, the mgr. of the store must have had a fit when he saw someone on an egg crate, I heard a man shreiking (just about) the name of the Winn/Dixie reset supervisor. Shortly after the reset supv. comes over to me and told me that the mgr. wants me to use the step saver. They are plastic raisers that are somewhat weighted. He told me to use 2 or 3 (and he gave a look as if to say he understand but we have to do it). OK, I got them (there were only 2) and 2 did not make me as tall as I needed to be to get to the back of the top shelf- even on my tippy toes. My team lead, a tall man, came over and made a remark and then said, get down, I will do it for you, and he put up the piece I was having trouble with. I did use 1 egg carton to get up on so I could reach the 2 step savers and to get off- no way I was going to jump down that distance. I heard no complaint about that. This is why I like worker with this team; they are really nice in very way.

Yes, customers and store employees are very helpful- however, when customers see me on the floor, they think I may have fallen (because I am old) and at first don't realize that I have to reach all the way back on the lowest shelf.

I also have the help of the W/D supervisor. I strip the shelves and he is good enough to set the shelves. Not only can they be heavy but I cannot reach a 4' span to hold a shelf and of course could never get them even. Hey, he sometimes is a notch off.

I may be short and can't help that, but I am learning to control my clumsiness and what I must do to get my rows back straight. I get a lot of happiness when I'm done and see the shelves looking the way they should- just as they are when a new store opens. :big_grin:

Um, those wonderful cathedral ceilings. Nice for a feeling of space but never thought about smoke detectors. I suppose they could have placed them lower on a wall where they wouldn't show. Surely all cathedral ceiling dwellings don't come with tall people or ladders.

I well knowthe beeping. My brother read the directions wrong and put ours up close to the kitchen - it wasn't a separate room. Everytime a piece of bread got a little well done, the alarm went off. So first the exhaust fan had to clear the air.

The big "selling point" of rentals is maintenance. Yeah sure! :Tantrum: :Tantrum: :Tantrum: , I did it for you. Hope it feels better now.

Phyllis

Hi Bill, I've been trying to read a post of youts, but have not been able to get it; my computer probably has a stroke.

Two years is wonderful; before you know it, it will be three.

I'm going to send you a PM. I knoe several web sites for sphasia and I think there are some that may interest you.

Hugs to you and mucho smooches from my little Mexican - (well, some relative was born there; she was born in Lakeland, Florida) to both you and Bud.

I like the picture- isn't it new. Can see Bud better.

Phyllis

Hi Amy,

I hate change too, but I have a strong belief in fate and that equals there is nothing I can do about it, so must accept.

When it comes to stroke.......no one asked for one, it was fate, we didn't say, ok I'll have one, but I want it to be this kind or that kind, It just happens, that's fate.

In the end, we can only accept. If not, we're wasting precious time and energy.

JMHO

Phyllis

Had to say "Hi". Was that you who had a birthday last week or so? If so, hope it was happy, no, I'm sure it was. Lots has happened with me in the short time you weren't here - in general, as you know, life goes on. The weather here is beautiful. Did your parents return North to live or are they still in that weird area where people live not in a named sub-division but in R section, S section, C section etc. That always gives me a laugh.

I recently heard a brother and sister playing the violin; the boy was the elder - maybe 13. He was very good. The sister was also good and with more years may be as good, but who knows. MY Dad starting teaching violin when he was 9 years old; I lasted 6 weeks at about 11. :roflmao: Just wasn't my thing. As they say, To each his own...........

Keep enjoying life and your new relationship. You know we all wish you the best. After all, you're part of our family.

Phyllis

Hi Ann,

Glad Bill didn't get hurt in the fall. I think they somehow teach us to fall right. Happens, can't really be helped without never moving out of bed.

Phyllis

Fred, I got my copy at the library. This county has a very active library system. I am able to do it all online but pick up the book, I reserve it and they call when they have secured a copy from whatever branch has one.

Krissten, the large type copy I got at the library is soft cover, but the price on back is 21.95. People should use their library systems if possible. If you live in an area that has a library - and a good one- they have so much to offer as welll as books. Clubs are based there on all sorts of things such as geanology, "new age" etc. Many have computers and give lessons (free - true, just the basics but enough to get one started) and a lot of goodies.

Where I previously lived, the library system had a partnership with schools (high) and the community college and in fact a University where residents were able to go to their facilities because of a partnership that was formed countywide. This is smart government to get more value for the same amount of $.

:happydance: :happydance: George, GREAT! That is only the first time; it IS going to get better and soon,, you may even be running with it - well, ok, walking. Happy canoeing (sp) A little at a time - that's what does it. :happydance:

Thank you for the responses. Let's see if I can clarify this a bit.

First, Betty Jean an ST is a speech therapist. Some are called Speech Pathologist. I do not know if the terms are exchangeable or a pathologist has more training. I do know that a Master's degree is required to work in rehabs - at least the one I was in.

Secondly, I did think about somehoe serarating them but can't right now think of a way. Speaking to the ST who is now part of our group doesn't seem to be the answer. We had a different person last year and were told they were going to take turns this year - for some reason, that didn't happen - perhaps schedule change for them. They divided the group into asphasia and "others" but because they are ST, and work more with those with aphasia, that group gets some people but for some reason, they do not attract the "others" and those that have come do not come back...........

Sarah, perhaps saying a "few times" was wrong. I don't think the situation is as you suggested. Maybe so, but I really don't think so. To begin with, to me the place where aphasiacs (word?) would be most comfortable with those who have the same problem as they have, then with other stroke (different types) survivors because we understand more than the general public who can be very misunderstanding because they know nothing about aphasia - unfortunately.tt is steps. Just from the way she is, and how they haven't seemed to meet people who have learned to understand the situation makes me feel it is a completely different thing. Perhaps I'm too much into the computer but she dtill hasn't set up their computer - in 2 years??????? I also can't understand why she hasn't put more effort into getting him some help. I honestly don't know if he takes any ST now or how much he has gotten. I do know that he goes to a VA hospital a short drive from this area (further than someone would go to weekly) He must be old enough for Medicare and they own their home so I don't think finances enter into it.

Anyway, it will be interesting.

Hi Lesley, There was a gal who belonged to a chihuahua club on like; she was a breeder. She often told us of the country and would send pictures.

Then, last fall my grand nephew was a member of the Jr, Dirt Bike Riders at what us similar to the Olympics but is for Dirt Bikers. They don't really get to see the part of the contry that is most beautiful but see the parts that are challenging. The US Juniors came in second, I believe. He automatically gets to go this year to Chile. They say Join the Navy and see the World; well he,s doing it this way.

:welcome: to the blogworld from me. Twelve hours isdifficult but works out fine in your case. Give a smooch to your bichon. Kmow someone who nbreeds those too. They are very pretty dogs.

Phyllis

Hi Christina, First - Mom Donna (right?) shut your eyes- This is Christina and me having a little discussion. OK!

I'm sure you know that that gifts come in many forms and not all cost green. In fact, I think you do. There are always i.o.u notes for different "chores"; there are special dinners you can plan and make; If you do crafts, there are items such as collage pictures from old magazines or even made from the postage stamps that come in the mail.

Of course, the greatest gift you give to your mother daily and that is being you. She is very fortunate to have such a thoughtful child (just a term).

I hope you'll share what you did do after Mom's birthday.

As for so called friends - well she has nothing in her life of any importance so she has to manufacture stuff. That kind of a person isn't and probably wasn't ever a true friend. I call people like that acquaintances.

Good luck in all your try-outs. I think participating is great.

Does you school have a social studies Fair? In a week, I am again going to be a judge at the one being held in this county. I hope I am given performance (little skits with the same theme written and performed by 3 -4 students. Much better than judging displays, many of which have help from their parents. It's held in a different high school each year and I'm excited to be going to a new high school which was very expensive to build and is just magnificent. It must be great to be a student there.

Well, guess it's homework time for me. I promised an article and guess I better finish it.

Bob, you are lucky you don't live in Central Florida, This is te lightning capital. When I first came home from rehab we had a storm and to me it looked like a lightning strike had struck the garage under mt room. I got out of bed and called my sister and told her there is an explosion in the garage. She told me no, that it was just lightning. Sure was scary. Now, after having parts of computer zapped - even when the storm wasn;t right here, I've learned to pull all plugs even when using a surge protector, It seems that trouble can even go through the telephone hook ups.

I'm wondering if you'd send me your site so I would be able to get the music - also the site for the petition- I'd sign. You could PM it. I don't like Big Brother minding the business of people just minding their own business........hope Tom isn't reading this - he may think I've changed political parties. LOL! Then again, it's the other guys who do that. It doesn't take a village just friends who will help someone out. I'll even send it to my joke list and I'm sure they will pass it on. Won't be thousands but every signature helps.

Phyllis

Sorry about your migraine, I guess you should think about it as another "surprise"

Anyway, belated Happy Birthday.

Hope by now, you are feeling much better.

Phyllis

Hi ahain Christina, GREAT FIRST TIME BLOG, I can just see the smile on your Mom's face. Her chest must be filled with pride and maybe her head a little swollen too.

I'm sure you can do this but I guess Betty Jean doesn't have any grand nieces around - even ancient I know the term and Betty Jean, you do too - just by a different name. Cheer is cheerleading and every girl loves that - unless they are extra fat and/or clumsy and then they also try out. LOL! Fortunately, when I was a teen- (let's see - George Washington was then president.............oh no, it was Harry Truman. I know, who was he?) Cheerleading wasn't quite as popular as now. I wasn't the type and instead was in the band. I played the glockenspiel..........OK, for any uninformed, the bells. They are now lighter than they were. In the concert band I sometimes beat the bass drum. I don't think you mentioned your instrument.

Sorry your Spring break is over but it does mean that summer isn't that far to go. Like yourse;f, I have to go back to work right now, so no more reading blogs until later. Glad you are now a blogger. So :welcome: here

Phyllis

What a wonderful suggestion. I must say, I absolutely agree with the others.

I've missed your blogs when you were traveling to see Ray; seems there weren't so many.

So glad you are back with us more often.

Phyllis :friends:

Not lemon icy, huh? LOL!

Made my mouth water with the pancakes and bacon. Actually, I did have a supper of that this week when I decided on something light. It isn't very often, so I used some regular, but lean bacon and have already decided on a cheese and bacon grilled sandwich for lunch tomorrow.

I agree, people should live where they are happy. I'd prefer the warmth for 12 months of the Greater Miami area to the colder weather in Central Florida and am upset that last weeks warm weather looked like the start of our better weather but it was 42 this am. Not too bad now at 3:45 but still a sweater is nice. I must consider taking a ride...........maybe south halfway and have friends come north halfway. That should warm me up.

I do know the shoes, coat and leash bit from NJ though. Guess you must have a small, very shorthaired dog - anything like a malamute would be embarrased I'd think.

Jean, basically, we had the same idea; you just type faster and word it better.

I don't want to tell you you're getting old, but I do feel that wisdom does come with age and we are there, :roflmao:

Mel, there is a holiday before the New Year where a person is supposed to atone for various things.If you have had words with another (telling it simply) you should open your heart and at least try to set it straight- thenb you have madew the attempt and you never have to speak to that person again if you do desired.

My mother had had a problem with my Day's brother (her BIL) and at this time, he was in the hospital from his cancer of the lung acting up. My mother said nothing to anyone, but went to the hospital to wish him well - just that. I don't remember if she ever saw him after that or if that was the year he passed away a few months after. It made her feel good though that she was "big" enough to do it.

I can not blame you for feeling as you did, but if it "bothers" you, and because she is your mother though may not act like it, even a simple card with a note saying that your brother had told you of her illness and you wish her well could be something you might consider. After that, you don't need to speak, write, see her or anything else. Once she passes, whenever that will be, you will have the knowledge that although she did not deserve your respect, you can feel that you "made peace" which will make you feel good.

In Reiki, they teach you to put a white light around the person and wish them well. Whether I agree with the theory, I'm not sure but then again, I'm not a real goody 2-shoes. I can hate with the best of them. :roflmao: But..... I do try. To me it's like "feeling a store cheated you" and just not going back but not making a big stink about it.

The wife says any and all of you are welcome to come and make bread/pizza with her, she loves the company

Sounds interesting. Perhaps I'll reb up my broom and come, Wonder how long it would take from Florida..........

I'll pass on any race. ....unless you drink enough booze to get your cerebellum to the point where mine is.

:roflmao: especially when tired. Oh yes and we could have a policeman check our heel/ toe. You would win that one even drunk and I would end up in jail for being "under the influence"

Can your wife "throw" pizza? You've got my mouth watering..........

I find Orientals very respectful of age. I worked in Home Depot and there was one employee who always came over and greeted me. When I told him I was leaving, he was so unhappy, I told him I would come to see him. I'm ashamed to say I haven't been there yet. I'm sure when I do though, I will get a wonderful greting.

BTW, what is a "fill"? Would it help a split nail? I split it at work about 20 years ago and don't want to have it removed and wonder if this would get it to grow right again.

Phyllis

Did you at least get the "ice cream" tonsils are famous for? Sorry, had to ask.

Glad you seem to be getting back to normal and perhaps the new med will only need to be temporary. Happy, too, that such efficiency was used. :big_grin:

Glad you got home safely. Guess you didn't make it to Paula's. Maybe another time or if you decide to do a vacation in Savannah. Did you ever speak to Dr. K. or did you just want info in case of emergency? Again, I apologize for the bad weather, The same thing has happened to the Bikers- cold and now beautiful (the reverse) I know though that their situation was worse, since they are riding in the cold (open air) no heater.

Guess my little one is ready for bed. She's sleeping on my arm - I'm tired as well. Guess this is it for blog reading tonight.

:welcome: BACK TO "BLOGLAND"!

Marden, I guess your dominant side was the one affected and that is part of the problem. I met a woman at stroke Support who does chalk portraits. She was fortunate that her stroke affected her other side.

However, I have a crazy idea. You've no doubt heard about people who have monkeys who do art work using fingure paints or some other medium - well, why not just change your type. If you excelled in traditional painting objects, what not try your hand (actually either one) at modern art or something similar. Art can also be the good use of color, textures etc. Ever try painting with your oppposite hand, or can you do anything with the affected one. You'd become another Grandma Moses and be famous - perhaps as much or even more than before.