HostAsha

hey kristen:

with your sweet silliness not just patrick, you can make others smile 2, and I thought only I was silly mom, but you beat me

Asha

M&M:

congratulations on all your wonderful things, I bet all of you are very happy to have ur s-i-l back, and he is back at the right time, where baby is great fun age to be around. I m sure you are going to have wonderful xmas with everyone.

Asha

Amy:

I bet its electric range, where we don't realise its on, takecare of your good hand, I have burnt my left hand many times since reaction time is slow, but not very bad yet thank God, hope you arefeeling better already.

Asha

Amy:

maybe you can have snowball fight with your kido, that's what I did last year, it was wonderful snow storm, its going to start here tonight 12 to tomo afternoon, I bet our kido's school will be closed, I guess tomo we will be playing in snow

love

Asha

stan:

I also admire your attitude towards life all looking forward to, holiday meals and everything, good luck buddy ur breezie is 1 lucky lady

Asha

hey Mary:

happy for you, PFO closure will be breeze, you will think wish you knew sooner, and closed it earlier, but hey nothing lost, your new year is starting with bang, wish you healthy and prosperous new year and merry xmas

Asha

fred:

out of curiosity and learning with kid, I have just started reading about pearl harbour, and decision to throw nuclear bomb on japan, and so many civilian lives got lost there,

I think whatever the cause was to go on waron japan or iraq , I don't admire any of the war presidents, including trumen and george bush

Asha

Amy,

after reading your blog even I got tired and looking forward to the weekend , kido is correcting my grammer standing next to me, just because he is in 3rd grade, and speaks good english, thinks he can correct me all the time

Asha

Pam:

over the years spirit of celebrating anything dies, cause when I was child the way we celebrated any festivals there was big difference, the excitement of food,clothes,gifts were so much, now as a adult that excitement is gone, nothing to do with stroke, it was part of growing up

but at the same token I still want to celebrate all festivals indian, amercican all for my kido, I feel having rituals and celebration I m creating memories for my son and my family.

Asha

hey Butch:

you are right this is ur place to vent about your feeling, I don't haveany right to judge you, I m sorry if I offended you in anyway, the thing is this stroke has all pushed in one big room, where we r all fellow citizens of strokestan. (instead f pakinstan, afganistan...).

glad you are back and dealing better in lisa-butch's stroke journey.

Asha

hey fred:

nicestory, getting my history sharpen on this site. maybe I should shop in lords and taylor than Macys.

Asha

hey Ames:

your hubby got very good sens of humor, and able to lighten any situation, and nowadays we have to beso alert on this blog list, it takes just hour to get pushed down to page 2, that insecticide might come very handy to keep page 2 clean

Asha

hey Stan:

my 8 year old boy will go wild reading this poopylist,

what iswith you guys(boys) from 8 to 40, likes to talk about only poop,butt, fart, boogers.

my son always says those words, it just cracks me up, so he gets more encouraged,

but ur list was hilarious

Asha

Hey Gary:

Happy Birhday eh, good way of net telling your age eh, I feel real delighted to know you and others so nice peole on this board and chat room. hope you had wonderful birthday with ur friends and family and pets.

lots of love

Asha

hey Sandy:

lets have festivious party, and I don't think you need pole for that. I am Hindu growing up in cosmopolitian city Bombay xmas was something our neighbours celebrated, they celebrated diwai and xmas both, so for me after coming to US we celebrate all holidays including xmas, we light up and decorate our plastic tree and give present to our son, and I get my perfume during that time, since its on sale during those timeframe. my family spends relaxing time at home during xmas vacation or better yet my hubby would take some time off and we take mini vacation in US someplace .

but maybe we should have xmas chat party in our stroke wonderland

Asha

Mary:

it's funny sometime when ppl keep on complaining about their ADL and minor problems associated with that, I sometime don't know how to handle those and just plain stop talking with those ppl.

Asha

phyllis:

me three, all excited about my new phase of post stroke 2nd year, I m already looking forward to couple of things including visiting my hubby's family in India. our kido always has wonderful time in India with his 50+ cousins and pampered throughout his vacation.

Asha

hey Vicky:

its relief to be half brave, I did mistake of telling my friends about my blog and now even on that 1 Ican't be not strong

but I know the feeling

love

Asha

you beat me today Amy, I was bit of downer today reading all blogs and ppl talking about walking away, I don't know how will I walk away from my stroke, only thing I could think was taking my ownlife and I m not upto it, I still have to make my kido doctor and get him married and get daughter in return

Asha

Sue:

awesome blog, I will leave out intelligent comments to intelligent people. I enjoy reading your blogs.

Asha

Kristen:

well said. I agree with you completely, my husband is sticking by me and he is the type who never says he loves me, sometime I wonder what is his reason for sticking by me. I guess I m plain lucky to marry gemstone

Asha

Kristen:

wonderful blog from caregiver point of view. but as a survivor point of view who is maybe same age as you guys. I also did not sign up for this, for caregivers you have opportunity to runaway from this stroke, but do we survivor has any opportunity ro run away from it. I can just sit and count my losses, but at the same token I realise by looking back and counting my losses is not going to help anyone including myself, I have to march on this road we call it life picking up my pieces.maybe I should write blog about this

Asha

Pam:

I agree with you 100% , but I also agree 100% on what sue said. please stay, don't think of turning your back on others. people whose attitude bothers you, maybe you should ignore thhem(not me though)

Asha

hey Amy:

good for you, in future if you want fake burbury or levibutton purses let me know, and I will get it wheever I go to NYC they r around $35

Asha

hey Butch:

Jean said nicely though I m getting quite offended at your thinking as a survivor. how much love you had for your wife that once going got tough, you want to blame it on her that its her fault and take easy way out, it depresses me to core that I saw 2 examples of guys o this site want to take easy way out, by blaming whole world but themselves. you know how much loss lisa encountered, I don't even want to think your loss or ur way of life. put yourself in her shoes and think what would you had prefered if it was you who had suffered stroke.

I know its your life and you don't have to justify your actions to anybody. but I m forming my own opinion about western men

I m sorry for harsh words but blame it on my damaged brain.

Asha