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vanilamoon: I think you need to let go off past and him, and one more thing my hubby had mentioned to me once, no one can make you happy or sad, take charge of your life, it's nody's fault why things turn out the way they did, just trust that w/e happened, it happened for best, by letting still hang on to past you are not moving on, and embrace ur new life which could bring so many new stuff. Also someone said to me b4, u can crib about everything in life, our situation in life 10% is the situation 90% how we react to it, so just chill & b grateful for all postives in life sorry don't want to be preachy, but by hanging on to past u r never allowing ur wound to heal, u r pretty woman, will find Mr. right if u give chance one more time Asha

Pam: I m so happy for you, you are able to embrace your life after stroke and it has turn out better than ur prestroke life. Man you are lucky woman, Bill cooks for u, drive u around and also write poems for u, wow Asha

Amy: last when I used to drive &filled up my car, it was still 99cents/gallon, so for me its shocker to fill gas at $2.99, and hey r u registering Mad for any summer camp I m off to India this summer so don't have to worry about summer camps anymore Asha

hey Amy: I m saying again, you give me big complex of not being great mommy to my kido, man u r great mom, Mad is so lucky, I sometime really wish I had woken up early to be good mom than what I was back then but I m glad I still have many years of being great mom too love Asha

Mary: Happy Anniversary, I loved your comparisons man I haven't been to Italy yet, but been to Holland and I loved it there. Tell you the truth, currently I m enjoying my holland also so much, Italy would have been fun too but oh well, who knows tomorrow Maybe by the time my journey ends I will be in Italy Asha

Vicky: Greg is pretty level headed person, and I m glad you are taking it nicely, I don't think I have yet cried for nice shoes, since I saw person who had brain injury was walking without shoes, I decided to be happy that atleast I have nice sneakers, rest qho cares Asha

hey Amy : is it with 1 hand or 2 hand, congratulation, Right now my hubby helps me put in the ponytail, since I hate it touching my shoulder all the time feels wonderful when u can do something which v were unable to do b4 Asha

phyllis: I had asked about success rate, maybe he gave the answer but by the time it came I had gone, but yes I had the same feeling, I m not that worse off to try unproven method in unknown country &clinic Asha

hey Vicky: That's great news, It feels good to be one of regular Asha

Pam: I think I would have gotton down &screamed at bigger guy to stop or I m calling police. If I was not weak on my left side than I would have tried to pull away those 2 guys and stayed in the middle till fighting breaks down Asha

Amy: I m glad you are not hurt who cares whether anyone saw or not be careful& have fun gardening Asha

congratulations!!! next year that's what I want to do volunteer in school Asha

hey : congratulations!!!Its wonderful achievement, that's my goal to ride bicycle, sounds so easy but I can not keep my foot on pedal right now, to get that training we bought stationary bike, so I m going to practice, and that day will sure come Asha

Amy: you give me complex as mother, I never noticed my son's teeth as long as he is not complaining, I m hopeful ur kitten will be back Asha

hey Pam: you had great mother's day with ur kido, man it sounds like you live in country. I still have to find here where they give horseback riding lessons, once I find it, I m going to register our kido for lesson my niece was crazy for horses the way you were, she would say I will marry the horse trainer when I grow old. It's great feeling seeing your child enjoy stuff which you like to do I m so happy for u, Alex will remeber this day for years to come Asha

Sue: such a deep thought, I never post based on what support I need, I rather like to document my good time and bad times, and when I m feeling low, I come back& read my own blogs and get courage that this shall pass 2 Asha

hey Pam: good ones, did you know basically Zen is buddhism which evolved from Hinduism,but when buddhism spread in Japan it became Zen. Now I know why I feel so close to ur comments Asha

hey Ken: One of our relative whose whole family is doctor she got thyroid cancer 2 years back, doctors treating her told that if my family had to get cancer I would pray for thyroid cancer it's 99.9% curable, our relative is cancer free for now 2 years after her treatment, even radiation is easy cause thyroid gland go alongside whole body so radiation also works very well. so tell your family not to worry, just a bump in life's journey. love Asha

Amy: you will be fine driving to airport, I know you can do it, guess what I volunteered at my kido's school for teacher's luncheon and I again drove to school its less than a mile from our house but important thing is I went alone and came back alone home safe&sound, and helped in cleaning with 1 hand. I hope you find baggage claim area once you go inside airport there r signs all over it so you will be fine, Gabe will be so happy to be back home too Asha

Karen: I m so happy for Rob, you know all these small things it builds so much self esteem of us stroke survivor which has gone down the drain after our stroke. I know mine did, and my hubby finally allowing me to do all house chores, built up my confidence so much. that way I felt I m contributing in our household matters. More he does what he can do, more good he will feel about himself &whole thing, I m so happy and proud of Rob Asha

hey: you pity party was pretty quickly over that's great thing, going through once in a while why and what if all this I try to address it my own coping skill maybe urs could be different, but this was my destiny and it happened for some reason and got to learn great things from my stroke, I realised my hubby is greatest & I got this wonderful time with my kido who I adore which otherwise I ould have spent earning money and missed his childhood Anyway counting blessings and writing gratitude journal helps have few pity parties Asha

hey Amy: you are just missing hubby 2 much & want to pick fight with him about him doing something. when I don't find big points to fight with hubby I pick on small stuff, so don't swat on small stuff enjoy ants (since they r in ur house & not in my house I can say that :big_grin: ) Asha

Mary: I hope you cheer up for your next blog, About young people dying and all, I think of it as their fate and maybe something good coing out of it, maybe goverment or somebody might put fence there such that future tragedies will be avoided. In any case I think of it we all come on earth with our destiny and go through ups&downs in life and deal with our adversity with our own instincts. can't say anything intellgent about ppl leaving&coming back, I willleave on smart ppl to answer that Asha

Mary: it's always pleasure to see your blog, atleast I know you are doing well, anyone who can and like to do garening, inspires me. I still get to muster courage to start my flower gardening in pot on our deck. Asha

Jean: That would be wonderful, I wish you lived closer, I woiuld have loved to hang out with you Asha