HostAsha

Butch:

glad to know you guys r having fun in bathtime, I missed the opportunity with my hubby, but we all are shower ppl pre and post stroke

Asha

hey:

I can't drive yet but as soon as snowand rain comes some people just forget how to drive and end up in ditch, we live in NJ and I guess I will start driving next year God willing

Asha

Pam:

i agree with you, I also m happy and content with new me, not too many issues with 2005 model, can't dance the way I used to but oh well can do slow dance in arm of my hubby. life is good, I wasn't unhappy prestroke but I was kinda immature, so I got maturiy out of my stroke

Asha

hey Mary:

those r easy to do things, but I also thought happiness is state of mind

glad u r back

Asha

Sue:

you said it very nicely. loved your blog feels like coming from heart

Asha

hi Virginia:

I am also stroke survivor who had PFO, I m even shy to mention my age, I m 36 year old mother of 8 year old boy, I m very happy you started blogging cause I m addicted to blog, and I would learn lot about you through your blogs.

Asha

Amy:

that's y they have mommy to worry about their kids, my mom still does it, but also trust in God that nothing bad will happen to our kids, he will take care of everyone. I don't know what else to say since I worry too,

Asha

hey Mary :

I avoided taking anti depressant for long time thinking I m not coockoo, but when I took, it was world of difference, life wasn't drag anymore, I can seriously say depression was worst than my actual stroke. Things look way more darker than they were, so don't be afraid of taking them, I m on my path of getting rid of them

Asha

Ruthie:

good luck, first is usually the best one, things relaxes a lot such that you can use it one more time, I hate to say but you are lucky its ur feet, since we walk all day long on our feet you will get good therapy on its own, wish you lot of luck

Asha

phyllis:

can you buy lottery ticket for me

Asha

hey:

so happy for both of you, life is so wonderful when we appreciate all those small things we take it for granted, my best moment was able to walk to the bathroom without aid was greatest moment for me

Asha

Vicky:

good for you, if you areable to stay alone for few days, both of you will gain tremendous confidence in yourself.

I love your positive attitude

Asha

hey Gary :

have you loooked into skype, you have to download program to your computer and call for free through your computer, my sister is big into skype when they had gone to India on vacation, she would call from India for free every day, though we have resisted so far, still can't get used to fact talking to computer

hope you found something in ur pantry

Asha

hey Mary:

don't worry about what memories of mom kids will have, just never think about quitting, you don't want your children to learn that when going gets tough, you have to show your kids that you still fight on with smile on your face, things do turn around, it do look up, I m thinking man she is able to turn on shower, that's great, you still here on earth for purpose so have fun in these journey of life, maybe not all scenary is great, but its still journey worth going through, raising your kids, making them responsible adults, getting them married, playing with their kids, I could go on with 100 other reasons. so chin up and smile

Asha

hey Fred:

welcome to blog community, I find writing blogs quite therapeutic though I always kept writing only positive things in my life, some might say I wasn't truthful to my feelngs, but writing those made me realise and able to deal with my newme

lots of love

Asha

Gary:

good luck in starting your group, for me my strokenet is only group,I wish I cou;d meet people, bu can't drive yet so oh well, good luck

Cheers,

Asha

hey Amy:

I will bet my quarter its not nerve pill, its red fruit coloring u ate in pizza, I bet you are going to have nice time in movie with ur hubby. do you guys still sit in corner seat and make out?

Asha

Sue:

its wonderful to have child aroun they change whole persepective on life, you should get Ray involve in all her silly games. its amazingly therapeutic, opens up so many reasons to try to get better, I know it happened with me, being aroun my 8 yr old boy brought world of differnce in me, I want to live and see my kido prosper

Asha

he Gary:

checked your blog page at harmony, but would you please continue to blog here, I somehow like our blog community here, it eels like family here, so I often visit this site every 5 mins. I m not serious blogger, but I like people here, so like to share my story here everyday

Asha

hey phyllis:

I missed the party though I had reason for it, i hope we have next one soon

Asha

Butch:

afer wha Jean and Pam said there is no other words of wisdom I can give you, except for my own survivor view points, you guys are married didn't you snap at her before, why would it take different meaning this time, and whatever she is doing by herself in the house is itself therapy, so don't worry that therapy is not happening, trust me things will get easier, you guys are family and going to stick together no matter what, and everyone is allowed to have meltdown once a while

Asha

Amy:

maybe you are allergic to red fruit coloring, maybe that pizza guy put fruit coloring in the food, jus a thought, I have heard before people being allergic to food coloring

hope you are feeling better.

Asha

hey Amy:

hope you feel good tomorrow, I blame all sickness to weather, its weird sometime very hot, sometime very cold. ur DD sounds very sweet to get you water and stuff, to our kido I have to plead to get me anything

Asha

hey

hang in there, things ease up, it sounded as if my hubby was complaining about me, I promise I will clean up my act

Asha

Amy :

that's scary, in our new house we don't haveany walls just windows everywhere, I keep ours blinds closed all the time for our bedroom and bathroom that'swhere most of the action and nudity happens

be careful

Asha