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Pam: the day I figured out how to wear 1 hand bra, it made me so happy, I wrote blog about it, and me 2 just month ago I had ordered few fancy bras from catalogue, which became untouchable fruit for a yea, and the day I was able to work on front clasping bras, and was able to wear it, I tell you felt like comlete woman again, as it is I m not buxom beauty and sports bra used to flatten my boobs, so I was so happy that I can wear bra again woohoo, and also with saree you have to wear blouse, so you do need bra underneath, so my mom might buy bras from VS, but it just feels odd, my dad has passed away for 10 years, and when I was growing up, talking about sex or anything like that was big taboo in our house, for crying out loud, I did not know how babies are made till I got married which was till 21 Asha

Pam: I am so happy for you, things are starting to fall in place, that's wonderful, after my stroke for lonest time till tpday when I pull up my pants, my left side is stil sometime little down, my niece and her friends always giggle saying, don't you feel cold that side, my answer is always no if i feel cold that side then i will think my whole left side is nude since don't feel a thing there. my hubby or someone is always checking on my that side of body. hey does ur son has any GF yethe is 14 right Asha

Amy : that was hilarious, if I ever meet you guys in person, I will be imagining ur hubby with bunny ice packing Asha

hey Pam: I am so happy for you, any good looking but oops i m married, but no harm in looking and flirting eh. I am glad you are able to deal with ur hubby and neigbhour little better now, that's the strong pam i know. I really feel bad that I found this site pretty late, when I was well adjusted to my anti depression pills that's when I found you guys not fair, would love to know u guys better, love asha

Amy: I know for sure everything will be fine on thursday, I just feel it, don't panic over it, should I say we all got our share of sufferings and now we r done with it, nothing bad is going to happen, worst part is over or down ride of our life is over now its up swing only. I will be praying and thinking about you on thursday. don't fret or worry about it just leave all your worries on God, make God our shephard and trust him completly, don' I sound like christian, but its true that thought itself gives me ton of peace. hey if you don't mind then could you give me your number and maybe we can talk on phone sometime. Asha

Amy: we also had to watch star wars this weekend, we went hal hour early incase if show goes housefull, and sat in theater watching all advertisements, overall we liked the movie, it had nice story and the whole movie my hubby got to sit in the middle so I got to cuddle against him. now we have to watch all star wars movie Asha

Jean: thanks for straigtening me out, Pam I m sorry if I have offended you in any way, I get very emotional, ean is right kids need to see both parents happy and if you both agree to keep your love life kids free that's best thing, Jean you are genious, how come you come up wit h such a wonderful suggestions, you can be my mom too please, you are so sound in your advice. I need mom like that Asha

Pam: you might not like my comment, but I have to, if you don't like it just throw out of the window. I thought all along you wanted to move away from him and get on with you r life and let him move on too, when you were moving out you didn't worry about kids cause you thought you will be in barn so still close, but once you move out, he and you both can have as many bimbo or loosers you bth can have, you should have thought about how that would affect your children, I personally disagree quite heavily about divorce, I think things should be worked out for sake of children, yes I understand he was *beep* not giving you any support while your ordeal, yes you are tough woman to bounce back from your adversity without any support, that's great, God has given you lot of strength. I know lot of parents take divorce because they don't want to raise kids in unhappy home, but after divorce when parents parades long string of girlfriends and boyfriends what kind of value we r instilling in our kids. I personally feel even in unhappy homes kids do just fine, I know it hurts badly, I don't know what will I do if my hubby did something like that. I feel that we r care taker of our children, and i think on mom's shoulder this responsibilty lies solidly. not saying all these to make you feel bad, but read all your blogs, all along you wanted to get out of this marriage first, he sticked by you through out your stroke maybe not the way you wanted, but he still had decency to stay. later you decided to leave him and maybre he agreed happily I know stroke was not your doing, but what you learnt from it, that your hubby maybe weak guy still had some decency in him, he was good father to children, if you look, you might find so many good qualities about him that maybe stroke gave us the opportunity to look at good side of people and accept them as they are rather than changing anyone Asha

amy: that's good goal list hey I had question for you, I have neer painted before but now I want to do, if you can just guide me in telling me what to buy to start painiting, I am right handed so I have more advantage than you, but I must say I m left handed in paintng like ppl r left foot in dancing, i know u will understand what I mean Asha

Amy: that's so sweet, you have wonderful daughter who loves to take care of her mother, mine is also cute but now he is charging me money for everything, hug is $90, holding hand is $10, slap is $30 so I told him you will get more slap than hugs, which is okay by him. give fe kisses to madeline from me 2. Asha

hey Pam: I come back from my vacation and read all the wonderful stuff about your apartment, and idea of how to make it cozy ooking, I was floored already, and you call urself non creative then what would I be, I love decorating my house, though not stencilling and sponge painiting, never had time b4, now don't have healthy body but i don't miss that at all, I think less clutter n the house and if things r at right place then house do look beautiful. you will have to take lot of pics of ur house and post it on our site. missed u guys for 2 weeks, cheers, love asha

Pam: I think I would like to get ideas from you in decorating house, I am thinking about gardening on the deck, but don't know from where to begin. yo describe yor alcove so precisely that I would want to come there and have smoke there, even when I dion;t even smoke Asha

Kim: is the doctor God, how does it matter what he says, things will be fine you will adapt with whatever brain you have Asha

Pam: you won't believe it through your blogs I m getting excited about your move to new apartment, I know you can handle anything and eerything, and in this journey of life everything is wonderful, even stroke is you are going to have wonderful apartment by yurself with beautiful catskill mountain view, now that you will move on with your new life maybe you and kutz will be good friends. goodluck in your new chapter of life we are always here for you, Asha

hey Vicky: I am glad party went good for you, don't focus on your sis-in-law's comment she might not have meant it that way, sometime peole says something, you jst have to ignore it, there is saying in Indian thing, dogs bark but elephant walks by as a King. Focus on good things they came from all over the US to join in party, thought about your financials also, those r good things. and ur son is so nice, he walks you back home, how old is he? I hope my kido stays like that. love Asha

hey Amy: what a wonderful blog, I have been thinking of volunteering, but where and ow r big questions in my mind, but you got everything so right, I would love to go and teach in your old school, you don't know you are shaping life of those young children, the boy who huged yo every morning brings tear in my eye, such a wonderful boy. Madeline is a lucky gir to have you as her mom Asha

Kim: this was hilarious, your blogs r always funny and sometime scary, i guess i should not judge anybody by their cover but i learnt valuable lesson in lifeused to be always unhappy about my marriage, but after stroke i realised its not he who have changed its me who hav e changed, in life we get whatever we r destined to, instead of finding faults in it, we can make best out of what we got, there might be so many faults within us, and if we all just get along then there won't be any broken homes Asha

Pam: whenevr I read your blogs you come out as very strong person, and m little scared of u, i guess we all deal with life's adversity differently, some choose to putyheir head in sand annnd assume problem will go away if they don't pay attention, some fights head on, ieverybody have their own style, i have none just rambling asha

Amy : that was beautiful list you come out as such a loving andcaring mommy. its so beautiful that it makes me think abou all other things\ Asha

hey Cindy: you make me jealous of your yard, and if khovanian builders find out that you have 2 acre land then they will build 20 homes there, when we bought our first house, we bought based on how big the front yard and back yard was, but since none of us r kind of yard people, we kind of never played in our backyard anytime m y son wanted to play we would take him to playground, so in our next house buying we have postage stamp size yard but big house which all of us love now. I kid around with my hubby that anytime if we get bothered by our neighbours we can just open our window and close their windows. I am happy that you got new outlook for a life, we all love u, i love reading your blogs, and I am able to look at the life wiith different persepective, Asha

hey Amy: I was so happy to see your blog this morning, you came to site with the big bang, Since we have talked many times before, I thought I knew you better than anybody but guess what I learnt lot more about you from your 100 list, I knew you were very good parent and loved your family a lot, but i did not know that you are pplanning for other onem guess that will make me aunt of the baby, at young age you have gone through lot of trials in your life, I think as lomg as we learn from our trials, no trials is negative one, all could be positive. lots of love Asha

hey chefdanny: do you have any vegetarian food recipe easy and quick, I would like to try some of ur recipe on my family but we r vegetarians. cheers, asha

hey Pam: I am scaed of those school phone calls, my son is in 2n grade and I have gotton few phone calls from teacher already complaining about he interupting ehile she is still talking and making funny comments and making whole class and she loosing her attention, and attention of all kids, right now he listens to me, but this parenting does scares me,

Becky: I m speechless about ur blog, is it minor injury and chances of healing r there? I hope it is, and we all get our life back