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Scott2.0 :

I like the new title too & might use it too without giving you royalty lol. I don't understand technical details of your project but looks like Scott 1.0 & 2.0 both r smart cookies

Asha

Mitch :

wow that's scary glad nothing scary & Jules is back home recuperating. I am glad you are strong enough mentally & physically & handled the situation well.

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hi kelly :

welcome to best online stroke support & our blog community. others will soon chime in. I can tell you as a survivor. yes it will get better. Stroke affects whole family, though with support of family & friends you can live as well as before or better than before.  first I want to tell you, you guys are still very early in your recovery. first few months are hardest too many changes for survivor & caregiver both. too many balls are up in air right now. but keep on working together in catching them. I feel best thing you can do for yourself & your survivor is establish routine, and try to make your survivor as independent as possible, help only when you are asked for help it has lot of benefits more he can do for himself & family its one less thing for you to worry about, & it will help him also in rebuilding his confidence & self esteem which does take big hit when you are hit with your stroke. I stroked at age 34 which left me paralzed on my left aide & retired me from the job I loved. I found blogging & chatting with other survivors very therapeutic for my soul.  hope to see you around often

cheers,

Asha

Pam :

I am so amazed by your inner strength. you got what it takes to make best lemonade possible. reading your blogs make me realize god does not do good or bad things to people. he gives us inner strength & right people in our life to keep on pushing on. I truly believe for you too best is yet to come. I always look forward to your blog & so happy when I see one.

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Jay :

great blog & thanks for sharing your experiences we are also learning & growing in wisdom with your blog.  I also feel in this second shot at life I need to be happy & should be fun person to be around. and I promise myself I never want my family to go through any pain because of me & be present as much possible that when I finally die they will really miss me

Asha

Sue :

I am so happy you had great time on your vacation & creating new experiences, I am bit jealous would love to meet you some day when you plan to visit USA. I remember yours & Anns caregiver journey. It was good to see you both had support of each other going through similar experiences. we missed you around here.

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Jay :

I have been thinking about it on same line for long time never acted on it since I didn't remember single nurse in ICU though I did visit my therapist & physiatrist at my rehab hospital. but none at ICU. maybe after kido goes to college I will volunteer there, since you reminded me thanks.

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Debbie :

thats such a lovely place. I find nature is most healing place & anything you can do together is so much fun building your fun new normal together.

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Jay :

OMG u r such a great guy definitely my kind of guy brother from different mother. though my husband is very similar in accepting weather & everything else in his life. I want to be like him who can look at positives in dire situation too. he is my rock & my strength. hope to meet you some day with your family.

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Ann :

that's so nice I remember how closely Bill & Ray followed each other. I am glad you got to meet Sue. hope to see her when she visits USA

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Jay :

enjoy your second chance at life

Asha

oh wow Jay :

thats so sweet now I want grandkids lol though I am not very good with kids never know what to do with them, versus hubby is expert, which makes me jealous lol

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Pam :

I agree with you 100% one needs medical advocate or family member when one is in hospital or nursing home. wish you lived closer. squeaky wheels do get attention in hospital & nursing homes. I am happy you are meeting both kind of people some are kind & some are unkind not in right field. I remember the helpless feeling all too well. but just keep your head above water when you feel like drowning in self pity. just remember nothing lasts forever. & ride has no where to go but up now. keeping you in my prayers.

Asha

Pam :

I am so sorry for what you are going through & feel so helpless. I pray for your strength & some angel to appear by your side to help you out. you areone strong woman. I hope you are able to join us in chats soon.

Asha

jay :

love reading your blog every day. your attitude towards life rocks. would love to meet you some day

enjoy your blessings every day

Asha

awww that's so sweet. Nowdays younger kids are more they know lol. I m so happy you are enjoying all these blessings in your life

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Deigh :

thats so romantic & thoughtful. I bet must have made your wife very happy

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Katrina :

you can control your eating but weight gain from meds r unavoidable. I had gained weight on my antidepressants. but as soon as I weaned myself off them I lost weight. So don't worry about it. just eat right food  and in moderation & do exercises. rest don't worry. 

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Jay :

I use microwave timer for my daily cooking as my back up in case I forget gas while doing something else not that it has ever happened, but its my security blanket while cooking.

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jay :

congratulations, and we love hearing your accomplishments. that in itself tells us more about the person & how his post stroke life will be. enjoy your post stroke life rome wasn't built in a day. BTW make sure not to become expert in grocery shopping otherwise your wife will assign that chore to you lol  like I have done to my hubby for different reasons.

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Fred :

I am glad you found your soulmate & right wife this time around. I feel in life we all go through life experience to learn & grow from it. so all experiences are lessons learnt. Marriages are all about adjustments from both sides, no one is perfect. We both have to adjust to each others imperfections.

Asha

Oh how cute tell your daughter to leave her daughter at your place every day to get her patient to do therapy every day.

you are indeed blessed grandpa

Asha

jay :

glad you got to brushed up your skill on small crowd first before  you get your big crowd

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Jay :

I am so happy u r enjoying your sunday, its so sweet when kids laugh & squeak without any reason. still remember our son's those baby laughter which now in his teenage years replace by contempt looks for mom lol. though I know that is going to change soon too when grandma playing with his children lol

Asha

Scott :

I can guess just from your blog you are going to lead great & happy post stroke life. with attitude like that you deserve nothing else

Asha