Kim and Marty,
Thank you for your replys. It gets very confusing, when there is someone in the family who tells you, you are parenting wrong. She is the same one post stroke after days of me being sedentary in the bed for XX days paralyzed,"It looks like you are gaining weight!" WEll, doesn't that cheer up a strokie!
I am going to stop typing/remembering before I get mad.
Thanks,
-Amy