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:hiya: :Ask: 100 things about me - well....... 1) I was almost born on April Fool's Day (missed it by 1/2 hour) - I popped out 3-31-54. 2) I was hoped to be a boy- my name was to be Donald Eugene (Eugene after my Dad's middle name). Instead, my middle name is Jean. 3) I was raised an only child...found out as a teen that I had a Brother (we have different Dads) 4) As a child we always had a dog - most memorable was Pierre Bouquet II - small miniature apricot poodle. He was 15 years old when he passed. 5) My first boyfriend was Dave - the boy next door(I was 13, he was 14). He taught me how to swim and a few other things - broke my heart when he and his parents moved out of state 6) My parents divorced when I was 18 and attending business school. Oh...I was straight A student. 7) My Dad and I disagreed on my future...I wanted to enlist in Navy and become a Registered Nurse. Instead, I went to business school and worked as a secretary for many years. 8) My Dad was a stubborn German...life was his way....I was always told I was insulting his intelligence when I attempted to disagree with him. 9) I am a 2-time survivor of Domestic Violence. I spent 9 years with 1st abuser (Charlie) but no kids. I was a once-upon-a-time stepmom to his 2 sons. I was a virgin when I met him. 10) At age 29 I was single and having a blast for first time in my life. 11) I was a Pennsylvania State Certified EMT/Paramedic with a volunteer ambulance corps. 12) Career change occurred when I was in early 30's - tried to find a niche....ended up finding 2nd abuser (Karl - thank heavens we never married). 13) At age 38, I gave birth to my beautiful daughter. Labor was 22 1/2 hours - stinker took her time in coming out. 14) When kiddo was 8 months old, my Dad passed away from colon cancer 15) I began taking college classes at local community college - wanted to pursue becoming an RN. 16) When kiddo was just turning 2 years old, we relocated to Arizona to get away from the abusive father. My mother and Stepfather were living in Arizona. 17) I continued to attend college classes in AZ - ultimately received AA/Chemical Dependency Counseling and a BA/Psychology as I could not get into the nursing program at my school (there were 500 applicants for 50 openings. After 3 rejections I changed my direction. 18) When kiddo was 3 years old, my Stepfather passed...he had ALS (very sad time). 19) As I received my degree in CD Counseling, I completed 2 internships as part of schooling...1 was with a rehab facility for women, the other was with the AZ Department of Juvenile Corrections. 20) My internship with Juvenile Corrections lead to employment with a nonprofit agency that worked with at-risk juveniles and also with families involved with CPS. 21) I worked my way up in the company to become a Program Director of the Parent Aid Program. 22) While I worked, I was single Mom and full-time college student 23) My Mother and I were never close as I was growing up. After my Stepfather passed the relationship slid more downhill. After 1-1-05, it became even worse. 24) I was engaged to a fella named Bob. We broke up when I developed some female plumbing problems. 25) At 49 yrs old I had a complete hysterectomy 26) After 8 years with the non-profit agency, I resigned before I suffered a heart attack. I was working 7 days a week - my daughter saw me most when she went to the office with me evenings and weekends. 26) For less than 4 months (prior to 1-1-05) I was happily employed with AZ of Child Protective Services as an Investigative Worker. 27) After 13 years living in AZ, my daughter, our kitty, Crystal, and I relocated to Pittsburgh, PA to be closer to family. 28) My nephew Billy is our landlord as we moved into a home he renovated. 29) Our current home is over 100 years old..we have a ghost, Maryanne, and her kitty ghost, Tink. We feel they watch over us. 30) It's wonderful being with family again..we have my Bro, Joe, and his grown children, My Aunt Char (Dad's Sister) and her grown children and their families. Note: I started out working on this in chronological order but there were things I forgot to add or wasn't sure where to place them so....... 31) I am the youngest of 4 children my mother had. I had a Sister put up for adoption when my mother was 16. Then there is my Bro who is 4 years older than me. When my mother was 4 months pregnant with me, my Sister Vicky died of a blood disorder. There was a genetic disorder inherited from her father. All 4 of us had different fathers. 32) When I was born, I was quite sickly. I spent a lot of time as a patient in Children's Hospital of Pittsburgh. At one time I was in coma from a high fever. I still have tiny scar on my forehead from an IV. 33) I was born with my hip socket nor properly formed. I had to wear a special brace and did not walk until I was 3 years of age. 34) I was born and raised mostly in Pittsburgh area but did live with my parents in Wheeling, WV and Johnstown, PA due to my Dad's employment. 35) When I graduated from High School in 1972 it was the 9th school I had attended - we moved around. 36) In high school I wore hip hugger bell bottoms, Nehru style tops, and fishnet stockings. 37) Once I left for school in the morning, I'd roll the waist band of my skirts so the length would be shorter (just fitting in with the style) 38) As a child, I was overweight, then slimmed down when I started menstrual cycle. 39) As a teen my favorite music groups were the Beatles, the Monkeys, Tommy James and the Shondells and Diana Ross & the Supremes 40) Before I went "steady" with my first boyfriend Dave, I had a crush on his older friend Chris. 41) When Dave and I went steady (for a few years) I wore a silver ring of his with the band wrapped in yarn so it would fit. 42) I attended my Senior Prom with a friend of my Brother. 43) My first car was a pale yellow VW Bug, stick shift 44) My 2nd car was my most loved - '69 metallic blue Mustang w/black vinyl roof and black interior. 45) I was Christened Catholic as my Dad and his family requested; my Mother is Protestant. As a child I rarely went to church...my Dad went to StMattresstohearFatherPillowpreach. 46) Growing up we went on one family vacation to Atlantic City - my Dad preferred porchville for vacations 47) My favorite color has ALWAYS been blue 48) As an adult I went to Catholic church and had my daughter Christened Catholic 49) We have not attended church regularly though past 5 years as there were issues within the Church that deterred us. 50) I still Believe and worship from my home. 51) I did smoke pot 2 times and hated it. 52) I love music and wished I could still dance like I used to. 53) Christmas is my favorite holiday and always has been 54) I still Believe in Santa.....He lives in my heart. 55) Favorite Christmas song is by Alabama...Santa I Believe in You (refer to #54) 56) All time favorite movie is Gone With the Wind 57) All time favorite book is Gone With the Wind 58) Have read the book and watched the movie so many times I know the dialogue 59) I love the Civil War era 60) I once spent 4 days in Gettysburg with my stepson Jeff touring just about every inch of battlefield 61) When I was married to Charlie, we were Amway Distributors 62) When married visited Niagara Falls, Cedar Point/Ohio, Sea world/Ohio, 63) Used to love riding roller coasters 64) Love to read - Danielle Steel favorite author - but also love murder mysteries and romance novels 65) Listen to Country Western and Oldies radio stations except at Christmas - then listen to continuous Christmas Station 66) I do smoke - I enjoy it 67) On occasion I will drink alcohol - like mild drinks 68) Used to go dancing with my one cousin every weekend 69) Have always loved the Pittsburgh Steelers (no duh) 70) I love surfing the Internet 71) Until last year I refused to use anything but dial-up to connect to Internet as I was too frugal 72) Favorite tv show is ER 73) I am a people person 74) In kindergarten I got in trouble for being a "social butterfly" in class 75) Until 9th grade I had straight D's in math - had turnaround in 9th grade as math teacher was cute 76) In High School I was in many clubs including National Honor Society 77) In college years had no lower than 3.8 G.P.A. 78) Was a Cheer Coach when my daughter was involved with Arizona Competitive Youth Football League 79) Due to cheer involvement, spent 3 Thanksgivings in Las Vegas at competitions for football team and cheerleaders 80) Was never athletic 81) Had one broken bone - little finger right hand (me, a girl, and a basketball collided in Gym class) 82) have had 2 car accidents - neither my fault 83) Never received a traffic violation 84) Love animals - would like to have a dog but adore my two "girls" Crystal and our newest addition Lili 85) Accidentally killed Kiddo's Beta fish when I gave aquarium and tubing good cleaning with Bleach 86) Other pets included hamsters and a guinea pig 87) Favorite foods are Italian 88) Won't eat spinach, liver, or unbreaded (naked) fish except tuna 89) I am somewhat superstitious 90) I believe in reincarnation and feel in a former life I was a klutzy southern belle and died when I tripped in my hoop skirt and fell down the steps 91) First saw Gone With the Wind on a High School field trip 92) When I went on school field trips I always would buy a toy to bring home to Pierre 93) I collect Angels 94) I also collect Gone With the Wind memorabilia 95) I love to play practical jokes 96) I love Venison but could never ever look into those big brown eyes and kill a deer 97) One time a deer ran in front my hubby's car while I was driving, she was followed by the fawn who ran into side of car and died from a broken neck. I was hysterical. 98) When I was EMT, was on a call where a young man killed his family by shooting them 99) Always wanted to deliver a baby in the ambulance but never happened 100) Would like to remarry some day should right gentleman come along I did it!!! :Clap-Hands:

What a week it was. For the majority of the week, my week was filled with supervising lil Mis Lili Marie (Kristi provided her the middle name as well as her first name ) Lili is one day shy of being 3 months old. Crystal and she do play together though there are many times where Crystal, the mature 7 year old she is, looks at her with complete exhaustion in her eyes. Lili may start thinking her name is "Lili NO" lol. Anyhoo......Kristi was invited to spend the night at my cousin Lisa's home Friday night. Lisa picked her up. Kristi had a terrific time with her cousins Tori and Becca. On Saturday, Kristi attended a Christmas Party with them. The party was with a group of volunteers that Lisa and her hubby Chuck are affiliated with - a disaster shelter. Kristi did call me frequently as she was concerned that I'd be ok. She was gone over 24 hours - all went well on the home-front tho I started missing my babbling teenager lol. Not used to THAT MUCH peace and quiet. The "girls" helped occupy my time and I had funny stories to later relate (hey - my damaged brain easily recalled what occurred - go figure). When Kristi returned home, she and Becca carried in bags of items we had needed from Target (Lisa was amazed at how well Kristi could budget and still get what was needed - good training ). When Lisa and Chuck came to the door, Chuck walked in trying to hide that he was carrying a box behind his back. He plopped it down on the floor quite ceremoniously :yikes: .....the shelter group had "adopted us" and chipped in and purchased us a Christmas Tree, lights, Angel Tree topper, garland, and ornaments to replace what we had to leave behind when we relocated. I cried :Sob: tears of happiness. My dear Bro had not yet scrounged up a tree and the fixins and now it wasn't necessary. :ChristmasTree: Lisa had also taken Kristi Christmas shopping so she could get some small gifts for the family. Everyone has told us not to worry about gifts but it bothered us that they we'd have gifts to open but nothing to give in return. After Lisa and family left Saturday evening, we put the tree together and even decorated it. Kristi was exhausted(not much sleep lol) but she said it was worth it to stay up and help get our home decked out. So.....now we're ready. On Sunday, my Bro took her and his granddaughters shopping...Lili now has her stocking - all our stockings have been hung with care :downchimney: on the mantel in the diningrooom with the stocking holders Kristi also got. The weekend did not end well for Steeler fans (boo-hoo). I was totally bummed though we're still in 1st place for our Division. This Sunday we can cinch a playoff spot. This morning I received an email from Figi's.com (placed an order last evening) that stated my order was approved - can make payments starting in February...so I ordered gift bags for the kids in the family (yes...there will be an extra bag for my #1 kiddo) I also ordered cookie tins to take to family get-to-gethers as my gift. I've gotten 2 gifts for Kristi (can't say what :nuhuh: cos she reads my blog LOL :giggle: ). All-in-all, pretty darn good week :big_grin:

Yes, my "furballs" are slowly adjusting to one another. Lili follows Crystal EVERYWHERE she goes. Lili will torment her bigger sister to the point that Crystal has slugged her a few times. - claws have not appeared. Lili though comes back for more and more. We do remind Crystal that Lili IS a baby and be gentle with her. Crystal is becoming more loving - jealousy lol I'm sure. Their relationship is like that of Garfield and Odie but the line from Crystal is :Thats-Funneh: "dumb dumb cat". On to family cheer....... On Friday, we attended my Brother's 8th Annual Christmas Party for family and friends. This was first time we got to attend due to being out of state. The party was planned to start at 5 pm. My niece picked us up earlier in order for me to get in safe and sound before everyone started piling in. As the steps going into the rented hall had railings, I was able to climb up of my own accord. Bro was waiting at the top of the steps if he was needed. We did take the w/c for my overall safety as it WAS crowded (300 people). I was unsure how I'd do with the mass of people and the overwhelming noise levels. I could not go "off" by myself anywhere. It seemed though that Kristi had "radar" tuned in as she'd appear and talk and sit with me. Cousins on my side of family plus close friends were there as well. The hall was decorated nicely for Christmas. the DJ was terrific (fella Joe has used for a number of years). During dinner he played Christmas songs and slowly integrated other genre. Food was out of this world (prepared by a gal who owns a local tavern). There was an open bar :Cheers: ...Joe always ensures the behavior of the adults as there are children also included in the invite list. Yes, I did partake in alcohol...had 2 Hurricanes (which had been prepared prior to party). Being served over ice helped to water them down for me as I am not used to partaking. There were door prizes consisting of musical Christmas Santas, snowmen, reindeer and dogs. Kristi won a Santa that moves to the song "Lollipop". We all received necklaces made up like strands of Christmas Lights as well as antlers to wear. Around 10 pm, the dancing began :Dance: . I danced in my chair to favorite songs and...since it was noisy....I sang along since no one could hear me lol. At one point the DJ announced it was time for our family to dance to our traditional songs - Family Traditions and We are Family. When the DJ played We are Family, I could not resist (plus the 2 Hurricanes gave me confidence) and I got up to join the family. My Bro and oldest nephew saw me venturing towards them. Bro came forward and got a hold of me and we danced and sang. When Kristi realized I was up there dancing with her Uncle she hooted and hollered. Camera flashes were popping everywhere. My youngest nephew's girlfriend (who was "quite happy" and feeling no pain), thought we should do the bump. Thankfully my Bro was right there or I would've have plopped on the floor. After being reminded of the potential danger she was more cautious. By the end of the dance (DJ played the extended version of the song) I was ready to sit down. At midnight we sang Happy Birthday to my Bro as 12-1 was his birthday. My oldest nephew drove us home at 12:30 and saw that I got into the house safely. I was a happily exhausted and recuperated all day yesterday (Saturday) Since then...my dear child has thanked me for moving us back here. She now understands and realizes the importance of family love and support. She told me of what occurred between her and my oldest nephew (I missed this). Billy walked up to her, gave her a huge hug and kiss on the forehead and told her he loved her. Wish someone would have got that on film. Though a camera did catch him trying to rein-act when he held her as a baby at her Christening. :giggle: The Christmas 2007 party was declared a HUGE success. Next celebration sponsored by my Bro will be St Patrick's Day 2008 :yay: .

This has been a very very special Thanksgiving for me and will hold many many memories. Although no one took pictures, mentally I did, and hope I can keep them in the memory bank to cherish. This was the 1st Thanksgiving in 13 years that we've been with family and it was a 3 parter. On Thanksgiving Eve, My cousin Darlene and her hubby, Bryan, picked up Kristi and I and drove us to Auntie's house. My other cousin Lisa, her hubby Chuck, and daughters Tori and Becca were awaiting our arrival. There were 9 of us for dinner and a bunch of yummy food and laughter. Darlene gave us all an assignment to be completed by Christmas Eve when we all get together. We've each got to write down (or type) our memories of each person the family. Dar wants to put together a family memory book. This project may be a bit hard for Kristi as she doesn't remember way back when we were all together before the move to AZ. Dar told her she can do current memories. One thing that was neat to see was how Kristi, Tori, and Becca are repeating history.....Me, Darlene, and Lisa were always close growing up - like sisters. On Thanksgiving Day, my Brother-dearest picked up Kristi, me, and his youngest son - Joey and we all drove to my nephew/landlord Billy's house. They just moved into this house last month after the sale was finalized. It's gorgeous!!! I could not navigate to see the bedrooms upstairs but Kristi and my Bro were good informants. Billy had prepared 2 turkeys...1 traditional and 1 deep-fried. Was the first time I tried a deep-fried turkey and it was pretty good tho I'll stick with traditional bird :big_grin: Once again...lots of good grub. There were 9 in attendance at this dinner as well including Billy's wife Jessie, little girl Kaleigh, Billy's stepson Brandon and my ex-sister-in-law Cathy - that was a treat lol). Billy also had "light-up" nite with his outside Christmas decorations. Way Cool. After dinner, there were more arrivals (Jessie's family) and my Niece and her hubby and 3 kids. I was drained by the time we got back home. I had firsts as I used the basement door to walk out to vehicles both Wed and Thurs. Going out the basement door involves a slight step up then a step down. there is a paved walkway to the grass then a drop down. As we've had rain...it was soft and even more uneven. My #1 coach (Kristi) talked me through it and I didn't plop on my nose. At each home I had to do some navigating as well since the old w/c was left behind and I used the hemi-walker. But I did it!!! :thumbup: On Friday Kristi and I had doc appointments with our new PC. I had to get new scripts and Kristi was having some shooting pains in her arm*Doc found nothing abormal and said we're to keep an eye on the situation. Kristi could not get flu shot as I did because of her cold. I also received tetanus shot. We've NEVER been to a PC so thorough. Really liked her "bedside manner" as well as she sat and talked to each of us prior to exams. I was not in with Kristi during her exam and vice versa. But...on me....they did EKG, normal physical type stuff including diabetic exam of feet, a breast exam AND a rectal. That was a first :blush-anim-cl: Plus she ordered a bunch of tests. And, doc is to be completing paperwork for me to get a power chair through The Scooter Store. Insurances should cover completely. Please pray for me it all works out as I then can also become more independent and leave the house on my own. I asked her about Botox treatments for my arm. She will be speaking with her neuro colleagues. I kinda gathered she has not had many stroke patients but is willing to consult with others. Thankfully, she is not cocky and feels she knows everything either. Yesterday, Sunday, we prepared our own Thanksgiving feast in our house. Kristi and I were a pretty good team in the kitchen tho she had a bird herself when she had to lift the turkey out if the sink and place him in the cooking bag. All I heard was "ooooooooooooo, gross......yuck and how could we violate Willy - yes she named the turkey. We stuffed "Willy" plus had stuffing on the side. Also prepared mashed potatoes, gravy, candied yams, corn, and crescent rolls. And....last but not least pumpkin pie. My Bro was to be here but he wasn't feeling well (seems he caught Kristi's nasty head cold). My 2 great nieces, my youngest nephew and his girlfriend and a friend of Kristi's were here with us. Before everyone came, we set out the few Christmas decorations we have to sit out. (My Bro believes he can rustle up an extra tree for us) We had one box we brought from AZ that Kristi packed (leaving behind some of my favorites, I must add - Kids :nuhuh: ) By last evening, I was totally worn out physically and mentally drained. Thank goodness for having a working dishwasher that's all I have to say. My Bro has been teasing me that I'm earning frequent driving miles as I was out of the house 3 days in a row. On Friday after the doc appt (he had his granddaughter's with us too), we all went to dinner. Out of the blue, my dysphagia decided to flare up and I ended up quite ill. On the positive...I was able to get myself in and out of the raised booth and to the restroom numerous times. Thank goodness the restaurant we were at was not busy and it is very "child friendly". What I got to consume tasted quite good. I haven't had a dysphagia flare up for several months...this time was a doozie. Since Friday, I have to be very careful as anything I eat wants to get "stuck". But....I'm keeping my head up and being positive that the dysphagia and other stroke-related maladies will not become worse.

Yesterday (Sunday) was interesting in our humble abode. Ya see, we have acquired a new addition to our family - a 9 week old female light brown tabby. Her name is Lili. She's quite darling from the bit of time we've actually seen her. We got her from a posting on Freecycle (a yahoo group) where all is free. She arrived around 3 pm - she was scared to death but briefly checked out the dining room on her way to the basement/family room where we later found her under the sofa. Kristi walked to the store and purchased kitten food - nothing has been consumed yet. Last evening, Kristi was able to bring her up to the living room and...until the phone rang...she cuddled with me on the sofa. Her eyes are huge and my guess is she weighs maybe a pound. And......how is Miss Crystal dealing with her new sister you probably ask? Well......Kristi is getting hissed at if she even looks at Crystal. As I am typing this though, Crystal is upstairs on Kristi's bed either pouting or scheming how to get rid of Lili. Crystal has ben friendly with me though and let me love on her this morning. Lili is in the living room under furniture occasionally meowing. Last night as I was getting settled for the night in my room, Miss Crystal was mouthing off - I can only assume that Lili had made her presence known. Times will be interesting here as we all adjust to the newest member of the family. Lili's arrival helped to smooth my ruffled feathers as the Steelers lost in overtime 19-16 to the Jets. This game took everyone by surprise. It appears that our beloved team can win when they are up against a tough team but lose to those whom they should easily defeat. Next game, Monday Night Football against the Dolphins - hard to say what will happen. At least the Jets are not in our division - we are still 1st place in our division...yes...I am justifying....it's part of licking wounds. On a very definite and positive/proud moment, Kristi received her first High School Report card....High Honor...5 A's and 2 B's. The B's were in PE and Algebra 2 (she missed an A by 3 points). Looking forward to Thanksgiving with family. We're to spend turkey-eve with my Auntie and Cousins/families and Thanksgiving Day at my Nephew's. Plus, we're getting a small turkey and trimmings to make here over the weekend. Friday...day after Thanksgiving...I'll be seeing my new PC for the first time. She is my Brother's Doc and comes highly recommended. Kristi and I both will be getting flu shots and I have a ton of questions for her. (already have part of my subject material for next blog update) Happy Thanksgiving one and all...gobble, gobble

Here's my 2 girls hamming it up together. This week has been a good one - especially being a STEELER fan :cheer: The Steelers whupped the Ravens in Monday Night Football and beat their rivals (the Browns) today 31-28. My Terrible Towel is definitely going to be classified as the Terrible Pile of Strings by the end of the season. Other than that, the week motored along fairly well. I got us signed up for the budget payment plan with the gas company as well as applied for an energy assistance program through the state. I also checked into housing assistance programs and both programs through the state and county are closed (figures ) with no idea as to when they will re-open to accept applications. Financially, we're making ends meet for the first time in a long time - but then cost of living is less than what it was in AZ. There's just not any money for extras or for wish lists. Also this week I applied for the county's medical transport assistance program - of course they will take me somewhere to test me and my disabilities in order to qualify for door-to-door service. My Auntie (who is also disabled and is 100% wheelchair bound) was initially expected to roll herself to the bus stop until her doctor got involved. The fact I can maneuver very short distances will probably go against me but we'll see. There is no way I could safely climb onto or depart a bus, as much as I wish I could. There are things that are definitely out of my control so I must keep my faith.

This week school pictures were delivered. This one is fuzzy because she took a picture of the pic and emailed it to me. I need to figure out how to scan the pic to the computer, then I'll have a better one. It's soooooo hard to believe she's 15. This coming week she will begin volunteering at the Children's Institute as a "Buddy" to an autistic child. The program is conjunction with her high school and the institute. Kristi and other classmates will spend time with these kids 2 times a month. They will go during the school day and work with their "buddy" in school activities. It'll be quite the experience for her. Well......weather is cruising downhill or rather the temps are cruisin in a downward fashion. Rain/snow showers are expected on Tuesday. No accumulation has been predicted so we'll see. The temps will be borderline on freezing for the low. :cold: Thanks to Ms. Asha, I have a cool bag to carry things in when I go up and down the steps. One step closer to independence. Today, for laundry day, I went downstairs to help sort laundry. I was surprised that Crystal didn't come and watch cos she usually has to snoop when we're in the same room. Then again, it's colder down there this time of year - poor kitty. If she'd let herself be covered we'd get her a sweater and booties but that ain't gonna happen with The Princess - no way - no how!! :nana: There is no Steeler game to report "boohoo" as they're playing on Monday Night Football. I've been practicing staying up later so I don't have problems getting up the steps after the game. I can yell for Kristi if I have problems but that's part of the independence thing......after we first moved in, I went upstairs when she went to bed so I had her help if needed. Granted, there are times I'm ready to turn in early but there are times I'm not. So....I have graduated - Yeah Me :i_did_it!: . It is amazing how we tend to forget the little accomplishments we have after we've been at this for a period of time. Until later....

Yes indeed, summer is gone gone gone. The powers that be announced a freeze warning for tonight (1st and definitely not last of the season) Here in the city we may not get exactly to freezing but awfully darn close. That's par for the course and our locale. Tis the season to be chilly..... I keep trying to convince myself I'm not cold lol. Kiddo will experience it first thing tomorrow morning leaving for school. So....this week, everything went ok here for the most part. Tiny issue occurred but was quickly resolved. And, most importunately....................... S T E E L E R S WON!!! After the loss last week, I was nervous...my Terrible Towel received a good workout :clap: They beat the Bengals 24-13 GO STEELERS The silly little Princess who is master over us has decided it's totally cool to run up the steps past me and meow at me when she reaches the top before I do. Little Brat - as I tell her - She's lucky she's loved soooooooooooooooooooo much. She did have a rather stupid look on her furry face though this week when she discovered me downstairs with Kristi. She quite understood though as she sat on the step and looked at the railing. Nothing much else new or exciting - just puttering along, keeping occupied and passing the time.

The past week was rather uneventful, which is ok - no mishaps - I didn't stumble or break anything :BashHead: . My Cousin Darlene stopped by with Auntie on Wednesday for a bit after Auntie's doc appt. They brought us a crock pot, waffle iron, and some other odds and ends . Had a good visit. Auntie hasn't been in this part of the city for a very long time - she felt as she was in a different country. With her disability and health problems, she doesn't get out or stay out often. She was having a good day so we got to see her. The week cruised along but ended in my "firsts". Saturday morning, my niece came to pick up Kristi. Kristi spent the night at their home. They brought her home Sunday around noon. So....I spent my first 24 hours alone in the house. Not totally alone as Crystal was here but she couldn't help me if I had a problem. Only slight problem was when I was preparing my dinner. I was going to have left-over Schwan's sweet n sour chicken with rice. As there was not much chicken left, I was going to prepare some chicken strips to add. I thought no biggie....put them on the cookie sheet and pop into the oven...easy right???? Wrong!!! One-handed I could not get the stupid bag opened (brand new re-sealable bag). Instead I ate sweet n sour rice with a few veggies that were mixed in. Other than the dinner fiasco, the time was quiet. I cruised the internet and finished reading a book - started another. Crystal did sleep with me for a bit but didn't stay the night (thankfully - have a king size bed but she HAD to be smack up against me). When Kristi returned home, Crystal let her know she was not happy that her Sissy wasn't home with her. Even conning her with treats didn't totally make up for her absence. That continued even during Steeler game, which I'm trying to forget I watched. Crystal stayed with Mommy and didn't even go to bed with Sissy. She left after I went to sleep. In a way I benefit when Crystal is mad at Sissy...she's more affectionate with me (think to make Kristi jealous). Now to my other "first" - my cousin Dar and her hubby, Bryan, came late yesterday afternoon and installed 2 railings leading to the basement. For the first time I saw my basement and even sat in the family room. Wow - way cool!!! Bryan also changed the lock on the basement door as there was no key for the door (that anyone knew of anyway). So now access for me is a bit more doable. The basement door can be accessed via off street parking behind the house. I can now have easier access to getting into a car. Just the possibility of being able to get out more was enlightening. You see, mainly, other than going outside on front porch to have a smoke, I'm cooped up 24/7 here in the house . Good thing I like the house. That's my week. Until next week....c-ya round :out_of_here:

Yes, the week was more peaceful for me :cloud9: And why you may ask? Cos I did not speak to my mother is my reply. I have not called there and Kristi has minimally spoken with her this week. My dear Auntie, very protective of me, spoke to Kristi and made some suggestions - one being that she doesn't relay :yadayada: to me all the negativity coming out of her grandmother's mouth. Kristi is listening and I've had less stress :happydance: . Tis a shame it has to be this way but it does. The weather here has been very chilly (so used to the heat from AZ) that I'm shivering constantly it seems. This cooler spell was a more gradual onset than the last so at least my teeth weren't chattering like they were before a few weeks back. We're to be in the 70's this week - more seasonable for this time of year. Even Crystal hasn't just stayed upstairs either. She is definitely sleeping on Kristi's bed at night - won't stay in my room long still. When she walks into my room, she's all cautious poor baby. In AZ she used to sleep w/me (of course she had to share my pillow) so maybe I'm better off lol. Today (Sunday) Chat was great with new Host Kathy. Kathy and I both have an adopted Mom - Mommie Phyllis has taken us under her wing. After Chat, my niece and her family came for a bit - Taffy hooked us up with freecycle.org run through yahoo groups. It's pretty cool. As Kristi wants a guitar, and as my funds are limited, I'll be checking the site out often. Plus, my cousin Dar asked us to put together a Christmas list for family. Only sad news was that the turtle Kristi was to get through her cousins passed away - "somebody" forgot to feed it - oops.

The week was moving right along until Wednesday evening. I was heading into the kitchen to take meds before bed. Instead of focusing on what I was doing, walking, I was talking to Kristi at the same time. As the house is over 100 years old, there are funky things here, like a slight downward slope going into kitchen. Also, we have to have a small throw rug in the doorway until we can get my nephew over here to deal with carpet nails sticking up. Can't have Kristi or Crystal getting hurt - Me? I'm always in shoes when I walk cos of AFO. Back to my tale.....I was stepping into kitchen...not focusing completely....I lost my balance on the slope plus got caught up in the throw carpet. I promptly went "skating" across the kitchen floor and slammed into the counter - ouch!! That smarted. Kristi came running into the kitchen all worried. What do I do, I stood there and laughed like a ninny. She got so mad - talk about emotional lability to the max. I was not laughing though as I tried to go to sleep - pain had set in from the slamming I took plus I had tensed up in fear of falling. I moaned myself to sleep. Thursday was a rough day as I lived on extra-strength tylenol. For most part doing much better just having trouble with good knee paining when climbing steps and standing up after sitting. The pain was better to handle though since the Steelers whooped Seattle 21-0 (sorry Bonnie) . My dearest child walked to the library for us yesterday - she brought me home Danielle Steele's Sisters. Dynamite!!!! On the way home she stopped at Subway as well. Yummy - haven't had Subway in looonnng time. Kristi was working at making me feel better. I've been bummed - you guessed it...AZ once again. Kristi was told by her grandmother that we're a burden on Joe. That he's got enough to deal with his kids and friends and now he has us as well. I sent him an email but have not gotten a response. Perhaps she's right this time and not twisting words around like she's done before. Time will tell.

I know it's just a game, but I won't stand outside and shout that in my neighborhood as I might turn into a salad as tomatoes etc get thrown at me. The Black n Gold lost today by a touchdown to the Cardinals :crying: :taz: . I kept saying we'd win - my daughter didn't not share my confidence. There are still many games to go...so we look ahead. Anyhoo.....rest of the week was fine...my Bro has enjoyed his vacation in AZ - good weather - partying :beer: . Slowly, I'm seeing affected body functions returning to a more "normalcy" than they were since 1-1-05. I've noticed that mostly what is talked about on the boards is with regard to physical and mental deficits, relationship issues, etc. There is also discussion regarding bladder issues but rarely bowel issues. That latter is a bodily function that has been absolutely haywire for me since the beginning. This was never an issue pre and has driven me bonkers post. I've experienced a variety of issues - which I won't delve into in great detail. TMI in all probability. I have to say though, there has been a noted return to normalcy in the recent past 2 weeks :Clap-Hands: I learned the hard way to more or less let nature take its course and the results are favorable. Our ghostly being has been performing. In the mornings, while Kiddo is packing her lunch and eating breakfast, she hears our front door open and shut - the door and deadbolt are secure, honest. Plus, she comes downstairs in the mornings and frequently sees the dining room chairs moved away from the table. These things I just found out as dearest child forgot to tell me lol. Crystal does not weigh enough to move them plus we've got carpet throughout. Had some issues with my internet and phone service going wacky. Turns out the installer had placed a connector box on the outside of the house as we wanted to eventually extend services to the 2nd floor. Unfortunately, there were 2 unused connectors that were permitting weather conditions (rain, wind) to mess with the service. Tech was here on Friday - I keep my fingers crossed that problems are resolved. Now, if my friendly ghost starts messing with my internet, there will be war :swordfight: Well...that's about all to report from my part of the country. Take care...until I update again :peace:

Yes, you read the heading correctly. That's what a banner showed today during the Steeler defeat of 49ers 37-16. Steeler fans bleed black n gold I do believe. We're now 3-0. Taking on AZ Cardinals next Sunday. My dear brother is going out to Phoenix with a huge group of guys ( they go away to a game each year). If we were still living there, he was going to have extra tickets and take Kristi and I. That's ok though...I would not want to go back in time to being there. I'll sit in my livingroom and swing my terrible towel while scaring Crystal with my whoops and whahooos . A post this week by a member got me thinking...am I a terrible daughter cos I left AZ with my child and maybe call there one time per week? There are times that I wish things could have been different between us not only post stroke but pre stroke. Of course that's my perspective and her ex-sister-in-law's perspective (my Auntie-dearest). We cannot change the past, we cannot undo the wrongs from our parents. I cannot create the loving parent my mother "thinks" she is and tells everyone she is and has been. Again, that's cos I can't change the past. It is sad that I have learned so much about the lies and deception that have prevailed over the years - things I would love to reveal that I know - but there would be massive denial. I am happy that I have stopped that cycle between my daughter and I that is for sure - but have I totally? What other ramifications of the stroke are waiting to strike out at me as the years go by. As I was writing this, Kristi came and was reading over my shoulder. She's told me not to worry. I had a mini-meltdown - I do not want to be my mother or even her mother. Kristi told me she will love me no matter what, but I'm still concerned. That's the future, which we have no control over. I can only continue my prayers that the cycle remains broken...or....if I do become her...I'm taken from this world so my daughter only has good memories of me.

Ok, another week has crept on by. Bro has had some tests done - results were negative - Doc is not done with him - she's very thorough. We've had cooler weather move in. Highs no greater than 65 for last few days - lows in 40's. After 13 years of AZ heat, I am quite chilled. My affected side is a bugger to get warmed up as well. Even under a blanket, my hand (or pudgy as it was nicknamed by Kristi a long time ago) takes forever to warm up. Temps are to rise each day this week to high of almost 80. Everyone will be complaining it's too hot - me??? I'll feel comfortable enough to not wear a sweatshirt. NFL in full swing - this diehard Steeler fan is in her glory getting to see each game. I was even glued to the pre-season games. Living in AZ meant not seeing them that frequently...being gone 13 years equaled a lot of games missed. We're now 2-0; I await each game wearing the Black n Gold, Terrible Towel ready to swing. I heard this week on the news that females make up 34% of the Steeler fan base - highest ranking in the NFL. I'm proud to be one of them. To all Kristi's Aunties, I'm pushing her to update her blog - honestly. She had time today while I was glued to the tv but she was busy on myspace taking surveys posted by friends. She has made some friends - one being Dillon, who just transferred in from another school. He plays the violin as well and is in her Chemistry class. Is there a romance brewing you ask? Don't believe so - she says he's a good friend. That's important right now. Till next week, :cold:

Hello Hello....this has been a much more positive week - sorta. Have concerns over my Bro's health. Last weekend he was at a Labor Day party and took a spell where he was unfocused, slurred speech, spiked sugar levels and unable to drive himself home (you're probably thinking the same thing I was). He did not go to ER but went to regularly scheduled doc appt. on Tuesday. Doc yelled at him (as I did) about not going to ER. He's to have oodles of tests done. It is possible this was caused by meds he's taking for bronchitis (at least the spiked sugar levels are a side affect). Other things are also possible, but he just shrugged and joked about my concerns. The remainder of the week was more positive as only once did I speak to my mother. That's cos she called here and the dummy I am :Whistle: I did not check the caller id first. My darling daughter had called her from her cell phone while walking home from school (said she was bored)...mother wasn't home...returned and called back. Lucky Me!!!! Fortunately, the conversation was short as the battery in the phone was pooping out (I was lucky there :thumbs up: ). Kristi has talked to her since but has not offered for me to talk. Kristi was bugging me last evening to "call my mother" to which I responded "no thank you". Me thinks my "Drama Queen" likes to stir up the pot a wee bit. Kristi is now officially a sophomore, instead of freshman. I had given the counselor until Wednesday morning to respond to my email. When she didn't I cslled. I promptly advised her that I am a stay-at-home medically retired Mom and can be a pest if necessary to get things resolved. Ironically, the school had just received Kristi's official transcripts from Arizona. So, problem resolved - YEAH for Pesty Mom!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Kristi is being better received at school during this past week. She's actually being acknowledged by fellow students. She is still getting adjusted to the surroundings; but...she's coming home in a better mood at least. My niece had graduated from the same school and told Kristi that it took awhile to adjust when she transferred there at the start of her sophomore year. As for me.....well.....I've had some more movement in the bad ankle and foot - nothing functional yet...but am able to move it around when I don't have the AFO on. I'm also using bad arm (not hand though) to brace bottles as in juice and soda for first time opening. Not pretty, but slowly coming back. I was rather dumb this past week and had a royal mess to clean up. For lunch one day I decided to heat up a can of chicken soup. The container I was using was a taller one that the whole can would fit into and there was a lid to have for the leftovers (thought it was going to be less fuss lol) As me and "pull-tab" cans sometimes have issues, I used my handy dandy one-touch can opener. It jammed and took me forever to get the can open (had broth to clean up) I had the microwave going and suddenly heard a "thud" as the container fell over. I had one royal mess of broth, chicken, and wild rice to clean up :yikes: . I still had some to eat though I don't know how. And...one-handedly, I got it cleaned up...only trace left behind was that the glass tray and track from in the microwave were still in the drain rack after being washed. I didn't get them put back in the microwave before Kristi got home from school - Busted!!! She also commented lol that the microwave still smelled a bit like chicken soup. Wonder why? :uhm: And my dear sweet child wonders why :Ask: I don't like to cook as I did prestroke. Heck, I'm an accident waiting to happen lol. Well, today is Sunday - NFL football regular season in motion. Streelers are playing the Browns in Cleveland. Got my Steeler shirt on and my Terrible Towel is ready for swinging It's Goooooo Steelers and off I go till next week's update.

Another week is chocked up and gone by the wayside. I honestly thought that when we left Arizona we left the problems we were experiencing with my mother 2,400 miles away. So wrong was I. You would think out of site, out of mind....but no....I have not been that fortunate. Since July 16th, when we left AZ, I have tried and basically succeeded in blocking out the crap she has tried to start. We have unlimited long distance. I am rarely the one making the phone calls; Kiddo wishes to talk to her grandmother (but at times is sorry she did). The latest phone call (Friday evening (8-31) I did not hear about until yesterday, Sunday (9-2). Kiddo finally discussed it with me, but first making me promise not to get angry at grandma (first sign of trouble to come). She then talked to me about the phone call. Grandma wanted to know how school was going....Kiddo was honest and explained the problems she was having (mind you...they can be resolved and are not life threatening :giljotiini: ) My daughter then heard a tirade of chatter from the other end of the connection :yadayada: consisting of what a horrible person I was for taking her out of AZ where she was content, had friends, and was well adjusted to her surroundings. To add further ammunition, Kiddo was also told that grandmother and her friends want to find a way to take her back to AZ. Now, I have a teenager girl - they are good at playing sides. My fear is that down the road, when daughter is angry about rules and regulations, will this be used? (not to say it will, but she is a teen) Kiddo was told all this instead of being encouraged in the adjustment process. (change is hard for anyone) Rationally and realistically I know there is not a chance in He** that they are going to take Kiddo back to AZ. HOWEVER, I became quite livid and wanted to call AZ instantly and tell her off. I was not permitted near the phone. Last evening though I was told "Call your Mother, be nice." I did not want to call her...and I especially did not want to be nice. As my loving child begged me, I called. And ohhhhhhh how the story changed. I was told quite the opposite of what was told to Kiddo...so if I had said anything, I woulda been told my kid was lying (it's happened before). So.....I bit my tongue (dang it's sore today) and was civil. Ok...I feel better...I've unloaded this source of anguish - ready to move on to the next challenge.

Yes, it is happening...summer vacation coming to an end for my kiddo. School starts on Aug 30th. Seems strange (just like AZ, to start school on a Thursday rather than a Monday). Crystal and I will be on our own. It's not like I haven't been in this position before but I think it's different as we're in the house. Since we've moved, I've gotten used to having her here with me. But, all will be fine - I'll continue to use caution on the steps. Bro dearest took kiddo clothes shopping for school clothes on Friday (8-24) After shopping they went to lunch and brought me home a nacho salad (quite yummy) We had elevated temps, dew point, and humidity this week - it felt like 97 on Friday. I was grumpy to say the least. On the plus side, and definitely plus side, we received our bedroom furniture on Tuesday. I have a king size bed and Kiddo has a queen. We each received nightstands and chest o drawers. The furniture is blonde wood - all drawers are on wheeled tracks - easy for me to access. Kiddo was concerned the queen would not fit in her room - there is plenty of room for all the furniture. My room is definitely a master bedroom - I still have oodles of open space in there. The guys also brought a sofa, loveseat, and chair for the family room. Later she carried the chair to her room to sit at her desk. Today Kristi and Bro are off doing a good dead - his closest and dearest friends are getting new carpeting and kiddo and Bro are part of the preparation crew. As for me...I'm loving the cooler weather today and looking forward to Steeler Preseason Football.

This past week contained Kristi's 15th Birthday. Seems hard to believe my baby is a year closer to being an adult. As planned, we went to Aunt Char's for surprise birthday party. Darlene (cousin) picked us up and her sister (Lisa) took us home at the end of the evening. It was great getting to see Aunt Char. We had not been together face-to-face for 14 years. Hugs and happy tears abounded. Darlene couldn't get to the camera to catch it on film. We were an interesting site - 2 women, in wheelchairs hugging and crying. I was able to "park" my chair and walk in and out of the house as well as inside. Just had to be careful not to get caught up in oxygen tubing as Auntie is on O2 24 x 7. She did remove the tubing for pics though. Once Lisa and her crew arrived (hubby and daughters), the fun really started. We had never met Chuck, Lisa's hubby. He is definitely the life of a party. For about the first 15 minutes he was shy - then heck broke loose. He loves to tease and Kristi was appointed as #1 she was Birthday Girl and #2 he had a new "victim". At first, Kristi was unsure of him but soon "dished" it back to her cousin's stepdad LOL. We ate dinner that Darlene fixed - spaghetti - yummy - then later had cake and ice cream after presents. Kristi received a compact stereo system, headphones, walkman, cd case, photo frames among other things. I was able to get her a necklace and cd from Amazon.com. At the end of the evening, I was definitely pooped. When we returned home, there was a gift from my niece and her daughters (a stuffed turtle) from Build-a-Bear Workshop dressed as a Doctor in scrubs and a medical kit (for the future vet). My Brother had left her a birthday voice message. We were to receive our designated bedroom furniture on Friday (17th); however, plans got messed up - now it is to be Tuesday. My Bro called today on his way back from his trip and was not happy that the furniture did not get delivered as was planned. Kristi got registered for school - school starts on the 30th of August. She's registered for all accelerated classes based on her AZ transcript. As of now, it looks like she may have to walk or take public transportation as we live within 2 miles of the school. The remainder of the week was fairly quiet.

Another week has cruised by in our world. Fairly uneventful until Saturday afternoon, that is. Kristi decided to bake a cake (her first one) outside of the childhood Easy Bake Oven varieties. I was asked to assist and thought ok, this will be easier - less mess than if I tackled it myself (I normally wear batter very nicely). After she had the mix in the bowl, she realized we had no vegetable oil (one item we forgot as we were setting up new kitchen). She covered the bowl and walked to the local convenience store to purchase the oil. As she placed all in the bowl, I felt it was a good idea to try out my handy dandy kitchen tool my Aunt had sent over - battery operated one beater (or wisk) hand held mixer (same concept as the one-handed can opener we both love. It worked ok but tended to get bogged down in the batter a bit. The problem came when trying to release the beater. What was the problem you ask :Ask: There ain't no release button, just the on/off switch. My dear daughter switched it on while holding the unit out of the batter. You're already laughing :roflmao: I can tell :silly: . We were both covered in chocolate splatters. After a good laugh and quick clean up, Kristi proceeded to pour the batter into the baking dish. This is where I always experience the most difficulty so I thought good, this willl be a cinch for her to do. No sooner did I think that and plop, the mixing bowl was in the batter in the baking dish. Again, chocolate everywhere. Amazingly enough, there WAS enough batter remaining and the cake turned out pretty darn good and all chocolate splatters were removed from us and the kitchen counter, floor, etc. Crystal was smart and watched the experience from the diningroom chair so she didn't wear any batter. This week will bring Kristi's 15th birthday; Auntie and cousins are planniing a surprise birthday party for her. She registers for school this week as well. I got her a backpack from ebags.com. They carry Jansports and had one make on sale for a great price. With a click of a few buttons, also got her birthday presents from Amazon.com. One gift has arrived - not sure if others will before her birthday or not. Nothing else to report from the wacky world of chocolate alias my kitchen.

Another week has cruised by. Finally got pics uploaded to my computer and site that my Cousin took the day after we arrived in Pittsburgh. Once all is said and done we'll do "final" pics. Yesterday, Sat, we went to a grad party with my Brother. It was great fun. We met many people who are dear and close friends of Joe's. I was overwhelmed, at times, with meeting everyone and trying to remember names. The party was an outdoor affair with tents, fantastic food, and desserts as well. I was fun 2-fold for me - being with everyone plus getting out of the house - getting me and the w/c off the property has not been mastered but has improved from when we first arrived. The other night in chat, I had mentioned a belief of mine and Kristi's. We are firmly of the belief there is a ghostly presence in the house. The lady (Mary Ann) who owned the house prior to my nephew buying it, passed away unexpectedly at the age of 67. Kristi told me she had been told that Mary Ann passed away in my room. After I heard this, I began to tell Kristi what I had experienced several times since moving in (seeing an image pass by a doorway) plus seeing "someone" glowing-like at the bottom of the steps at night. Mary Ann loved cats and at one time had a dark-colored cat. One evening, after I was in bed, Kristi was on the computer and saw a cat walking under diningroom table. Our Crystal was sleeping in the livingroom at the same time. For the most part, Crystal will NOT go upstairs at night. If Kristi carries her up, she will stay a moment or two and retreat back downstairs. One night this past week, I went into my room at bedtime to discover absolutely no power in my room. Yet the rest of the house was fine. Kristi ventured to the circuit box - every switch was still on - nothing tripped. Only the Kitchen and basement switches are marked (go figure), so she experimented and fortunately found the one for my room. We have spoken to others about what has happened. We were assured that Mary Ann would have liked us and that we have nothing to be worried about. Kristi was spooked (pardon the pun) at first but has relaxed. I'm even more curious now. Today (Sunday) Kristi is attending her first Pirate baseball game with her cousins. I do hope the forecasted rain holds off until the game is over. They have tickets right behind homeplate. As the game is televised here, I'll be "looking" for them. Adjusting is still going well - Kristi saw a young fella at the party yesterday. Come to find out his dad's work supervisor is my Bro and that Tye is a football player. Kristi is looking forward to seeing him at future parties. This was a good perc after she encountered a few days ago a group of young ladies who will be at same High School. They were rude and obnoxious towards Kristi - so her belief system is that ALL the girls will be like this. I've comforted and assured till I'm blue in the face - she'll learn better on Aug 27th (first day of school).

Yes, seems hard to believe but we'll have been in Pittsburgh 2 weeks tomorrow (7-30). We're basically unpacked, except for bedrooms and things to be hung on the walls. We're to use special hangers so as not to damage the walls with nail holes - we need more of them. The bedrooms are still a work in progress awaiting the bedroom furniture. Kristi is presently using an airmattress while I have a twin bed that is a wooden frame with storage below. I'm so short and the bed is so high that my feet don't touch the floor when I sit on the side of the bed lol. The railing on the right side of the stairs was installed so I can now navigate independently up and down the steps - Yeah!!! :Clap-Hands: :happydance: Kristi is learning to cook on a gas stove - all we've ever had was electric. We make a good team in the kitchen - it helps the kitchen is big enough for both of us to manuever. Yesterday, we collaborated in brunch - ham and cheese omlets - yummy. My brother bought us a Magic Bullet - great fun planning what we're going to create. Temp wise, big difference from Arizona. Feels good not to break into a sweat just by breathing. I don't feel cooked anymore :microwave: . Mid 80's is quite a bit more comfortable for us versus 100+ temps. Kristi did ask if she could go back to Arizona - stating she's learned her lesson and will be good. She speaks to her friends back there on a daily basis. She does ask me frequently if I'm happy here and if there's anything about Arizona I miss. There is NOTHING or NO ONE that I miss enough to want to go back there. Once school starts here (Aug 27th), she'll be busier with new friends and homework to pass her time. She's gotten to spend fun time with her cousins as well. My Bro has a boat and has taken the kids out for rides as well as lunch. Crystal is doing great though she has a scar on her nose from the boo-boo she inflicted on herself trying to escape the carrier on the plane. She remains petrified of storms and here has all kinds of places to hide out when the thunder and lightening arrive. Our neighbors appear friendly - some have already welcomed us and introduced themselves.

:Wave: We're now in Pittsburgh. If this blog entry is toooo long, I apologize but there's alot to tell - there are many here (you know who you are) who have oodles of questions. To email or pm each of you individually would take me until Kristi graduates from High School (3 years) lol. So.....here's a run down (unless my brain decides to f"art in the middle somewhere): The flight and things leading up to it were eventful. We obtained new shots and health certificate for Crystal as required by USAirways (though no one EVER asked to see them). The vet gave us some tranquilzers for her as well. We never slept the night before, not even Crystal - we were all wired. At 4:30 am we gave her 1/4 of pill as prescribed by the vet. It was sad but also funny to watch the pill take affect. However, it totally did not work on her. We had to give her another 1/4 at 5:30 which never knocked her out either. Kristi's best friends Elizabeth and Alina and Elizabeth's Mom, Colleen, drove us to the airport and went as far as the security checkpoint with us. There were tears and we were off to get scanned. I had my wheelchair. They wanted me to remove my shoes and AFO to walk through - as that was not an option for me, I walked through and then was permitted to sit in my wc and be "swabbed". Kristi and Crystal were not permitted near me until I was "cleared". Kristi had to carry Crystal through as her carrier had to be cleared. During the flight we had to give Crystal 2 more 1/4's of the meds and they still didn't zonk her out. Twice she got the zipper open and popped her head up. Kristi had to fight her back in. In Pittsburgh, my Bro met us outside the airport after we got our luggage then he drove us HOME. We love the house. My Bro and his friends worked very hard to create a homey atmosphere. As we get settled in, there will be pics added to the gallery. Only draw back is that I was not provided with the entire truth on the layout of the house. The bedrooms and new bath are on the 2nd floor - 15 steps for me to climb. Right now there is only one railing on the left side. I'm able to manuever the first 13 then Kristi has to help me up last 2 as railing is not long enough. A special railing as been ordered and will be installed Monday on the right side. Coming down is not a problem; I'm just sore as I have not had to climb steps since we sold our townhouse right after the stroke. Crystal is adjusting so well - she's eating, playing, and being very social with everyone. As my brain and body are getting tired, must close this out. :out_of_here:

I had hoped to write a blog closer to actual flying date of 7/16; however, due to cable company requirements, we need to get the digital cable box returned to their office. Of course they can pick it up for a charge. So.....service will be disconnected for cable/phone/internet sometime tomorrow - Friday the 13th. Granted, I've never been an overly superstitiious person but I don't normally like to push my luck. All our boxes have been shipped and we're still trying to sell things that couldn't be shipped. Family members and friends we don't even know yet are so excited and are rallying together in setting up everything. So...how am I doing as it gets closer? Well, it is with mixed emotions that I face everything. I'm taking my daughter away from the only state and city she remembers and plopping her in an area where people she don't remember will be welcoming her home. AZ is her home. I know she's going along with this for me as she knows how unhappy I have been here post - especially when it comes to my Mother and the lack of support she provides. I've experienced some meltdowns and Kristi has turned the tables and giving me the same pep talks I have given her. I must continue to "Let Go, Let God" handle things and squelch my Type A personality - there are things out of my control. Also, things are falling into place - housing, furnishings, etc - Divine Intervention has taken over and "things WILL be ok". I'll be going through internet withdrawal as well as Strokenet withdrawal. I love my job here and can't wait to get back up and running from my new home. I'll actually be living in a house with a front and back door. No townhouse or apartment like we've had since Kristi was born. A mailbox right outside the door - won't have to wait for Kristi to walk to centralized mailbox area. Talk to all of you soon. :out_of_here:

Countdown is 8 days till heading to Pittsburgh. 2nd batch of boxes gets picked up tomorrow (Monday). We'll call to have the last batch of boxes picked up on Tuesday. Kristi, bless her, is packing away feverishly as well as doing the downsizing of taking things to dumpster. It is comical as we've seen so much of our stuff being carried to apartments. They say that a person's trash may be another's treasure. Bless them. We're also trying to sell items like furniture and electronics that we can't take but need $$$ to help getting restarted (ie security deposits for utilities etc). Kristi has wanted to blog :throw: but there has been a technicial glitch with her accessing her blog or even reading other blogs. ((CORRECTION: After writing this, I was advised that Kristi is able to blog and read blogs while using Strokenet Custom skin :Clap-Hands: ) We got the new carrier for Crystal but she has not gone inside it - she's sniffed the entire outside though so far. Next we're going to put inside her crunchy treats to entice. My dear Auntie is on a mission to help us set up the new house. She emailed me yesterday questions about what type of products we use as well as what we like to eat. She and my cousins are so thrilled that we're coming home although Kristi doesn't remember living there as she was so little when we left. After reading her emails. I had a melt-down and cried my eyes out - Kristi was out for the afternoon so she couldn't make fun of me for crying and tell me I look like a monkey when I cry. :crying: This was 2nd melt-down I've experienced - the first one she told my Brother about - I was told to chill out....I'm trying.....I'm making progress and getting things accomplished that I can do. Today I updated magazine subscriptions on-line :Readpaper: So.....we're getting there.....this week also need to contact utilities here to disconnect service.

Well......................it's official........flight arrangements have been made and confirmed. We leave Arizona on July 16th at 8:50 am :plane: . My dear Brother called today and we 3-wayed the airlines and made the reservations. And, Tinkerbell is in her new home. The family picked her up yesterday. She now has a 9 year old girl to play with. The family had had another guinea pig who passed away. I received an email from the Mother and she said Tinkerbell was doing great and the loved her. It was hard. Kristi broke down crying before they arrived. I broke down after. But we're ok since we know she has a loving home. Had to order a new carrier for Crystal-kitty that would meet airline regulations. It will arrive this week. The carrier we had was too large plus Crystal absolutely hated it and us for putting her in it. Kristi decided to put her in it in hopes of an adjustment - NO WAY - she hissed and gurgled at us for 2 days if she even made eye contact with We've been busy packing and downsizing more. It's all coming together. My Bro gave me utility information so I can make contacts. Services are turned on in the house right now but will need switched to my name. As busy as we are on this end, my Bro is busy on his end too making final arrangements. My nightly dreams can now have an additional segment - officially becoming a resident of Pittsburgh again. :Zzzz: :Neeeedsleeep: