Katrina,
Glad to hear you and your roommate are are getting along - that's a definite positive. All else will fall into place. I understand you want to be totally independent; however, unless you ask for assistance, you are going to be eating food minus condiments. ASK for help. The other students or staff are not mind readers to know you need help. It doesn't make you less of a person because you do. Believe me, I know that firsthand - I'm sure others can empathize as well.
A rollator walker may work for you as you could place the tray on top of the basket. I'm sure, for you (which I can understand), you want to be like everyone else and carry your tray. That's ok, if you want to be a :juggle: after you graduate.
Yes, you are facing various obstacles at ther moment as everything is sooooooo new; but look at them as a challenge - which as you accomplish each one that's an added thing you you have worked through (even if it means someone is helping you, it's still been accomplished).
I'm sure you've heard the saying regarding the only stupid question is one not asked - well, the same can apply here. Ask for help - I bet you'll be pleasantly surprised.
First day of classes tomorrow, Wednesday - YEAH!