Kerry,
You are doing one heck of a job just as all the other fantastic, terrific, and wonderful caregivers and family members caring for us survivors. Dear Friend, it only makes sense that you're feeling frustrated over the reaction of those not "in the know" regarding stroke - us survivors hear the same idiotic comments.
Yes, you are tired; yes, the same things are done day in and day out - you need to take Kerry-time too so you get a break. Even if it's a short period of time, it's better than no break at all. It's not the quanity of time spent on you - it's the quality of the time that counts/what is beneficial.
Chin up - :friends: