Keepongoing

Hi,

Glad to hear about the improvement with your father. One thing I did ask my husband was could he understand what was going on and what people were saying in the beginning. I always included him in on decisions even when he could only nod yes or no. I was not really sure he understood what was going on. but, He said he always knew what was going on. Once when Rod got a kidney infection I thought he was getting depressed too. It could be both causing the problem. Hang in there, it will get better day by day.

Lynn

I brand new to this board and I can't believe all the questions I have had that other have as well. My husband just went through a recent set back and now I am beginning to feel he may not get back to where he was before the set back. I have also spent many of times thinking this is it, this is as good as it will get because he just isn't moving forward, and then it starts again. I am normally very upbeat and keep my husband moving forward. I know this is one of the things that help him to get as far as he has. This last set back has me very down and having a hard time getting the win-win attitude back, it's like I am grieving again. What a roller coaster and now I am feeling guilty that I have lost my positive attitude.