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Thanks, Fred, for the encouragement. I will tell you that when I first rode the recumbent bike in Physical Therapy, I fell in love with it. I also have 2 herniated discs (lumbar) so I was never able to use gym equipment without experiencing the pain. But the recumbent bike was so much fun, that my Physical Therapist used it as a reward for me if I did well during my hour of therapy. It also made a huge difference in my mood.

Have a good day, Fred!

Debbie

Jean -

Thanks for reassuring me. My husband agrees that we need to find someone more knowledgeable and supportive.

You're the best!

Debbie

Come one, come all -- there's plenty of buns for everyone.

:wub2: Oh, the door key is under the gnome in the garden lol.

**hi** Sue -

What a great idea! I have decided to relax downstairs in the loveseat,

all wrapped up in an afghan. Instead of the beach, I will focus on a snowy day - I'm sitting in the log cabin, in front of a blazing fire in the old brick fireplace. I'm all alone. The only noise is the crackling of the logs.

I'm eating hot cinnamon buns and drinking the best hot chocolate I have ever tasted - whipped cream on top, no marshmallows. This dream goes on and on ... but you get the picture.

I would have loved to try the beach scene, but it is a bit chilly in the house.

Thanks, again!

Debbie :wub2:

Thanks to everyone for your friendship and kind words and helpful advice. As you may have guessed, I was having a panic attack while

posting by blog yesterday. Perhaps I should have listened to the tiny voice in my ear whispering, "Step away from the keyboard and nobody gets hurt!"

After thinking about the situation, I realized that I had overblown

every possible scenario. I am going to sit back and see what happens.

Don't worry, I'll be sure to tell you all about the visit!

Love, Debbie :wub2:

Kristen -

Here's to easier days ahead for you!

:forgive_me?: :cocktail: :forgive_me?:

Fred -

I totally agree that time seems to S-L-O-W-L-Y move forward from one hour to the next, but then I am shocked when another week has gone by. Where did all the time go?

If you need any winter, I'm sure I can share some of ours with you - we are expecting a Nor'Easter snowstorm on Tuesday. I'll keep you posted.

Have a great evening! :giggle:

Thank you, Lynn, your words are encouraging.

Best wishes to you and Rod, also.

Debbie

Sarah -

Now you're speaking my language! Pre-stroke I loved going to the casino - I only play slots, but I so enjoy it.

I've had a couple of trips to Las Vegas, but most of my casino trips have been day trips to Charlestown West Virginia - I don't live too far from there.

I'd love to go again, but I know that our money is too scarce right now to risk it. But congratulations to you! Now get that new purse - you deserve it!

Deb

Sue -

I want to share your comments with my husband. Sometimes I think my husband forgets about the little things that might matter to me, because he is so overwhelmed with the big day to day problems we both face.

I would really feel needed if I had a spare key to carry, or a couple of bucks in my pocket.

Thanks for sharing. Achoo! God bless you.

Deb

Jean -

I think it is so important to honor Don's wishes and feelings pre-stroke (at times when he has no post-stroke opinion about the situation). He is so lucky to have such a caring and loving spouse/caregiver.

Deb

Sue -

Thanks for sharing and caring.

I took your advice.

The sun was warm and melted

away some of the gloom.

What a way to start the day.

Best to you and Ray!

Debbie