Donna, I know deep down Kristi adores you. She is just going through her "thing".... I am happy you posted as this is a very healing place for you to "dump" .... just remember to flush so you can get rid of it. You are such a special person and you are respected, loved and admired here. You are a very loving Mom and you have done all this as a single mom, with your resources. You have had to sacrifice for her sake. You put her before youself. There is not one selfish bone in your body. Please take time to reflect on your good qualities and realize she is just a teen and with that goes a whole lot of stuff. Just that stuff. She doesn't have a good group of friends, that is one thing she needs. You are so caring, the Birthday cake you made for her was beautiful and made with love. The gifts you got her were so thoughtful, you went out of your way for her. She will realize one day how blessed she was that you were her Mom. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Deep down inside I know she knows your worth.
I am keeping you both in my prayers.
Love n Hugs, Jan